For the title of this film review, I quoted a sentence from the writer Li Juan. In her work "Remembering the Way Grandma Sticks Her Tongue", she said: "Pain" should be used to hide in my heart, and sadness is born to be Those who try to restrain themselves must be forgiven for the hurt and deception. People who don’t care are not heartless people... I don’t know why, I feel that the heroine of this movie, she gives me the feeling, just like Li Juan’s grandmother, who has suffered hard but looked careless. They rarely She is affectionate, but anyone who has been in contact with it will understand that she is not a heartless person. The personality of the actor itself, in fact, more or less endows this role with certain characteristics. In addition, the female starring in the movie "Three Billboards" before, the image of that mother is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, so when I see her, I feel her Especially tough, especially tenacious, she will never compromise on life, and no difficulties can crush her.
However, unlike "Three Billboards", the character of Fern is restrained and restrained. I know Fern's personality very well. Because this type of person is often more independent, she always keeps a relatively distant and polite distance from the crowd. This kind of person is self-reliant and self-reliant, and will grit his teeth when encountering difficulties and never show weakness. However, the more habitually tolerant and restrained, the softer and affectionate the heart is. Because she doesn't open her heart easily, once she opens her heart to love someone, she must be loyal and use her life to love. So when she met her husband, she met her soul mate, did not hesitate to leave everything behind, and went to the desert with her husband. I believe that every person who meets true love cannot help but think about a question. If one day TA is gone, what should I do? When my husband and I were chatting late at night, we would often do this thought experiment. I couldn't help but think, what should I do if I lose him? Once, the more I thought about it, the more sad, and the more sad, I couldn't help crying. It sounds a little funny, but once I think of this world without him, how can I survive? Bob, the man who lost his son in the movie, said the same thing: "When I think of this world without him, how can I survive in a world without him?" The hostess felt the same after losing her husband. , The world is so big, but it feels infinitely desolate. There is no one who can share life anymore, no one can have dinner together, hug to sleep together, talk and laugh together, what a lonely life like snow. But after crying after holding him, I wiped away my tears and told him that if I really lose him, I will not commit suicide, I will still live, and I will carry the memory of him. In this world, it’s incomparable. Live alone. I think this is the normal state of life, how many people are still moving forward with pain in their hearts. Everyone who wanders on the road has an unbearable past and a hole in his heart that cannot be filled. Because of the pain, I chose to banish and banish myself on the road. For the hostess, after her husband died, in fact, she no longer had the concept of home. The other half of the co-built home left early, so no matter where she banished herself to the corner of the world, for her it's the same. The most important person no longer exists. Where does one live, what is the difference? Although everyone has a deep pain in their hearts, the world is still nostalgic. In addition to love, there are family, friendship, and kindness from strangers who meet in peace. The friendship between those who are at the bottom of society and those who are fragmented, It is even more precious. All the people the hostess met on the road had a deep pain that he didn't want to mention. In the short time they met, they lived hard, hugged each other to keep warm, and did their best to provide each other with some warmth and comfort.
Life for everyone on the road is very difficult, almost can only maintain the most basic life. Even in this case, people still choose to help each other, do their best to give each other some kindness, so that each other will not be frozen to death in the wasteland of life. I think it is the temperature between these people that makes the hostess feel that the world is not so indifferent. It's a pity that life is rare to be together, Only parting. Every time we meet, it means separation. Every time we met, it was like a bright bonfire lit in a campsite. Everyone sang and danced around the warm fire, as if the joy would never end. At the time of parting, it was like that piece of wood that had been burnt up, leaving only ashes. When the fate arrived, he had to wave his hand and hit the road again. No one can stay by your side for long. As we grow older, it becomes more difficult to establish a close relationship. Most people already have a stable social circle, with family children, it seems that everyone has their own destination. Many wandering friends have found their homes again and are no longer wandering. But the heroine did not. It is difficult to re-establish a new social circle after middle age. Not to mention looking for a soul mate again, and then opening up your heart unscrupulously to start again, it's all too difficult. Every time someone leaves, the seemingly nonchalant hostess will always stand in place, watching the other party's car driving out of sight from a distance. Her face seemed expressionless, but I knew that she must be reluctant to give up in her heart, very sad and uncomfortable. After her husband passed away, it was these friends around her who gave her so little warmth and allowed her to continue on this road. Every separation may be a farewell. But they still have expectations, looking forward to the next time they can meet again on the road. When this soul could not be placed under a fixed eaves, the hostess put her heart on the whole world and devoted herself to the embrace of nature. Nature is silent forever, yet it opens its arms to everyone. It can give eternal comfort to all injured people. In the movie, the hostess met a friend who had cancer and died soon, but her attitude towards death was very free and easy, and she said something that was particularly touching. "I'm 75 years old this year. I think my life has been pretty good. I have seen many beautiful things when kayaking around: I saw a family of elk on the Idaho River; in Colorado On the lake, a huge white pelican landed in front of my kayak; after crossing a corner, there was a cliff. I saw hundreds of swallows parked on it, and swallows were flying in the air because of the river’s Reflected, it looks like I’m flying. There are also the newly hatched young swallows. The small eggshells fall from the cliff to the surface of the water. The white eggshells are simply wonderful. I think I have experienced enough. More, my life is complete. If I die at that moment, there is no problem at all for me." If I die for a moment, there is no problem at all for me. " If I die for a moment, there is no problem at all for me. "
She has seen too many beautiful landscapes in the world, nature is extremely generous, giving her precious wealth, all of which makes her feel that she has lived enough in this life, even if she died, she would not regret living. Perhaps the best destination for a lonely person is to exile his soul to the entire universe and the entire nature. When the hostess wandered alone on the road, she drove through the magnificent natural landscape, drove through the hollow of thousands of years of trees, through the boundless wilderness and desert, walking on the cliffs, listening to the turbulent waves, and feeling the roaring waves. The wind blew across the face. She was alone, seeming so small in this vast universe. At that moment, I believe she will also feel a great calm and comfort in her heart. This world is so beautiful, and nature's generous gifts, I think she is still willing to move on, she will continue to live with the memory of her husband. That inner pain may not be healed, but who is not full of holes in his heart and still has a calm smile on his face? Those who seem so indifferent on the surface are definitely not ruthless people.
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