Girls in their 40s and 50s, I miss the four of them so much. Every time they appear in a dazzling array of high-spirited flowers, they are so pleasing to the eye. Beautiful clothes and shoes and a beautiful wardrobe, beautiful wedding dresses and shoes, a pent house, jewelry, and a gorgeous wedding scene.
A few years ago, in the age of 20 something, in a foreign land, sharing a lease with girls, squeezing on the sofa and watching the first season with Lina from Guangdong, Joanna from Hubei, and Helen from Shaanxi, I thought I would never be a leftover girl who calmly complained. . Those thoughts, we just smiled and looked, far away.
Now at home, in peace, hanging out with our besties dressed as if we were in Manhattan, we're more and more like them.
The wisdom brought by age, the control of life, the beauty, luxury and style that did not fade away, the scenery proudly entering and leaving various occasions, the rich blue of the Gulf of Mexico... all did not make them feel less lonely. ,
we guys are still worried. I am no longer afraid of waking up and not having enough money to pay the rent, and I am not afraid of dying alone. I have finally grown my hair, hoarded my favorite clothes and shoes, and bought my own rouge and flowers. In the presence of old friends, I often feel that life is full and safe. However, after this is no longer fragile, it seems that the happiness of the world is farther away.
In the end, the movie shows us a complete picture, Carrie finally waits for the most beautiful ordinary, Miranda learns the reconciliation and mutual trust of marriage, Charotte is pregnant and gives birth to a daughter, and Samantha finally leaves her boyfriend who shares weal and woe with each other, because she still loves herself the most and can't. Reluctantly to change for others to endure loneliness.
Let's use our traditional concept to translate it:
Carrie couldn't put down a certain man, he easily left him, got married, divorced, and tried to comfort him all the way. Obedient to his cheating, gave up the good marriage, and finally got him to say you are my only one in seven or eight years. In the tenth year, when he casually said about marriage, she couldn't believe it. I finally determined my happiness and dared to tell the world, but this person escaped from marriage due to psychological barriers on the day of the wedding. It took 7 seasons for us to see the man's conscience, and we waited for another movie, spanning nearly a year, until he dared to face life and truly committed to this infatuated woman. From the beginning to the end, I did not see a deep soul entanglement. In the final analysis, it is just because Mr Big has a great demeanor and can create a small mood, and he is willing to spend a lot of money to buy people a smile. But in the end we will still say with tears in our eyes, Carrie, I wish you happiness and stop being tortured by love. Big... Forgive you for being handsome and saying "I got it" with ease.
Miranda seems to have been unwilling to be with Steve all the time. I changed who I was was her real idea. A successful female lawyer with a sharp mind moved from Manhattan to Brooklin, married a simple and honest bar owner, worked hard and raised children, gave everything for her family but forgot to get along with her husband and wife, she is a thousand and one marriage proposal, an excellent woman and a sincere man A touching story. A few years ago she cried and said to Steve, I've always been alone, I've always been on my own, and I'm afraid that after I'm used to having another person, what will I do without you. I've always been reluctant or unbelievable, breaking up every now and then, and I don't have much enthusiasm for Steve. I'm just moved... I've been moved for many years, and finally I married him with my son, and the result... I was too depressed, and it didn't seem to be very harmonious. At the end, forgive him for returning to the normal state of happiness, mostly because she has learned to accept her fate.
Charotte makes people believe that as long as you keep preparing for the perfect marriage, and you do everything to get that life, you can really get it. She was almost born for marriage, and waited persistently. Once there was a sign of happiness, she worked hard to be grateful and cooperated with the people around her. When she was happy, she vigorously enjoyed and publicized it. When she was frustrated, she was sadder than anyone else, but because she believed that she would always be happy, endured many calamities. This kind of effort is too long and too long, and when I finally get happiness, I am afraid of losing it again. She thought it was simple, so stupid, but such a girl should have a happy marriage.
Samantha is someone we envy. She is extremely dependent on men, but also extremely independent. Physical dependence, spiritual independence. 50 years old but fabulous... Yes, she is a real person, everyone is waiting for another person to fill each other with them, only she is complete, how can such a person be old. The first three women all want men to understand themselves, men to experience themselves, Carrie and Miranda's tendency is too strong, only she is not. right, because she doesn't even have any interest in understanding a man's mood.
The beautiful foreign objects in the film are all embellishments. Women are supporting roles, and so are men. Happiness is the center of the world, and women are willing to sacrifice themselves in it. For people who believe in this way, learning to make choices that convince themselves without regrets is already a victory.
Well, I'm luckier than Carrie, eh! I have more than three good sisters. We don't hug very well, we may be in different cities, but I really...it's ok without a man, not without you.
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