May you and I have such parents, or become such parents

Jesus 2022-03-21 09:02:00

Oscar suffers from a medical condition where he has trouble understanding other people's emotions and is sensitive to sounds and numbers. This makes it difficult for him to interact with people, as can be seen in other children insulting him in the film. But his father has been actively guiding and patiently accompanying Oscar's growth. Growing up is always a pain, a long journey, many people have matured in time, but their hearts are still hesitant.

In the film, when Oscar talks to his grandfather, the high speed of speech and the sharp and fast cutting scenes show a child's inner backlog of emotions for a long time. Oscar felt comforted again when he finally found out that his mother had been silently guarding him all along. In fact, the father may be the person who understands Oscar the most, but the mother is the person who resembles Oscar the most. I hope we have such parents in our childhood, and even our whole life, or that we can strive to be such parents.

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Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close quotes

  • Oskar Schell: It's just a box! An empty box!

    Linda Schell: I know it's an empty box! I know this. But I did it for me, and I did it for you so we can at least try and say goodbye to him. Because he's gone, Oskar, he's gone and he's not coming back. Never. I don't know why a man flew a plane into a building. I don't know why my husband is dead. But no matter how hard you try, Oskar, it's never gonna make sense because it doesn't. It doesn't... make... sense!

    Oskar Schell: Fukozowa you! You don't know anything!

  • [first lines]

    Oskar Schell: There are more people alive now than have died in all of human history, but the number of dead people is increasing. One day, there isn't going to be any room to bury anyone anymore. So, what about skyscrapers for dead people, that are built down. They could be underneath the skyscrapers for living people, that are built up. We could bury people 100 floors down. And a whole dead world could be underneath the living one.