Foreword: Whether it is reading books, dramas or articles, it is a necessary and good habit to write down your own insights anytime and anywhere, and then organize them later.
s1e6: Walt asks tudo for money, 50,000 (35,000 for materials + 15,000 for medical expenses, jesse is injured), and use violence to control violence
In an emergency, people can always come up with a solution; sometimes there is stock, and if you want to open a sales channel, you still need balls, and you have the confidence to negotiate.
Health and mentality are sometimes the decisive treasures, let yourself be easy, and long-term health probably means this.
If life is a marathon, what speed should we run at, is to work hard in the first 30%, then relax completely, and even speed up the run, why do we always rush to complete everything at the fastest speed? How far can a person's strength go? Should I abandon some utilitarian ideas and let myself run at a suitable rhythm?
[Reading on Zhihu] My boyfriend's salary has risen very high in recent years. In addition to his ability and contribution, a big reason is that he has enough negotiating confidence. And we are in good working condition now, because we will no longer feel wronged to work out of economic needs. After this mentality changes, even the meaning of work will begin to change.
The priority utility of money: buying freedom and comfort, not luxury and extreme enjoyment
Growth is important, but we must avoid ignoring the basics. We must know the limitations of being human, our life is limited, our energy is limited, and our emotions are limited. All the limitations tell us that it is more important to learn to retreat than to advance. Blindly attacking is more important, admitting your insignificance is more important than blindly pursuing excellence, knowing that rest is more important than hard work.
s1e7: Today is the first day of the rest of your life. What will the rest of your life be like? It's the rest of your life full of fear, thinking about "no, no, I can't do it" to life, never believing in your own life?
When you find yourself doing some dishonorable things, others are not much better than you, open your clothes, and no one is much cleaner than others;
s2e4: Walt's wife started a cold war, and Jessie was kicked out by her parents, life is possible for everything;
Walt's wife: cancer husband, doing things that he doesn't know; emotional son, slightly disabled; relatives stole the necklace and gave him a shower gift as a child, but was arrested by the police; the family is poor and white, all kinds of broken things ;Myself, can life be more difficult when I accidentally conceive a daughter in middle age? (Look at it the other way around: women's emotions/pretend/revenge/control/cold violence are no less than men's, and it may be the me behind the back who supports these things Great heart, you all owe me)
s2e6: Walt's wife thinks that the Gretchen family supports her husband very much, and a Bentley attracts the envy of the world; but Walt disdains the support of this expense, because he feels that Gretchen owes him too much, today's millions Hundreds of millions of wealth are inseparable from my original research results, and I am out of the game like that (many technology companies in the old and the United States, the ultimate beneficiary is not necessarily the original researcher)
Knowing the enemy and knowing ourselves, we can win a hundred battles, if we know who/how our enemy is, we will not feel very afraid
s2e7: Hank is transferred to a new job. In the new environment, he is more likely to be excluded and make you bow your head and confess; walt said to Jessie that you say blowfish, the important thing is not how powerful you are, but your aura and aura , you can make others afraid of you three points.
Sometimes what matters is not what other people say about us. If we keep listening to the outside voice, it will only make us lose ourselves, learn to listen to the inner voice, do i be ok with myself; when hank goes to a new environment, his colleagues laugh at him as a big man with a language barrier. Mouth, but after the colleague was blown up by the head of the turtle, who is laughing at whom, time will prove everything;
Self-reflection: I ranked first in the high school exam, and my work income broke through. I always tried to get my mother's affirmation to make her feel safe. In exchange, I didn't retake the college entrance examination after failing the college entrance examination, so I wasn't motivated enough. All of my children have obtained it in Shanghai; maybe, I don't need the affirmation of my parents at all, nor do I need to strive for their sense of security, because their sense of security may be that I do exactly what they say, and it doesn't take much to become a People with ideas; to go to postgraduate entrance examination, to get married, to make friends. . . (All my hard work from childhood to adulthood was set on the premise of meeting my parents' expectations, why i need to fullfill others need, while they even dont think clear what are their needs, my mother doesn't know herself at all what they want, some fear/fear)
Those Bad Jobs or Darkest Hour: (The Age of Involution)
1) Unemployment
2) Work with great physical or mental strength
3) Poor working environment
4) The nature of work causes direct harm to the body
5) The atmosphere of the colleagues is poor, the leader pua, deliberately makes you uncomfortable
6) Simple repetitive work, no growth
7) Low income
The result is: tired, no money, no growth, unhappy, hurt; forgetting what we have is also very important;
s2e8: Sometimes we just take it too seriously, there is no conclusion about what is right and what is wrong
Walt to hank: i have spent my whole life scared, frightened that things could happen, might happen, might not happen, 50 years I spent like that, finding myself awake at 3 in the morning;
but you know what, ever since my diagnosis, I sleep just fine. I came to realise, its that fear that's the worst of it, that's the real enemy.
Walt to jesse: U are not his pal, u are his boss, this only work when they scared of u
s2e9: Maybe we have to go through all the despair before we can be careful; walt and jessie went to the wild to cook, the car key was plugged into the power supply, and the electricity leaked, walt can only generate electricity manually, there is no water, no mobile phone signal, no people place, is there anything more desperate than this?
s2e10: You think women are vulnerable, sometimes they just want to play with you. For example, jesse fell in love with his neighbor, and they slept together, but the neighbor only loved his young body, and he was still in front of his father. Pretend not to know him; it's good to have money, walt can now put the best water purifier in the house, and can put on a new floor, which is more confident.
Although Walt's wife is always with her husband, she went to work in the former company under the economic urgency. The woman still couldn't resist the emotional troubles and fragility. My heart also softened, and I deliberately dropped the office pen to the ground to attract the CEO's attention. If the so-called woman likes you, she will also give a signal to let you take the initiative. (How many of those beautiful love stories in front of the screen / on the news are not show elements, look at Wang Leehom and Li Jinglei)
Money is very good, but it is also very dangerous. It can buy freedom, and it can also destroy people's hearts; if you have money, you must control it reasonably.
Walt, at home, it can be said that there is no sense of authority of a man, his son should not be called junior, but he will respond when called fleen, and his wife seems to be used to all this, and does not care whether the majesty of her husband exists;
Revelation: Who we are with, that is, what kind of environment is really important, some people come to destroy us, what we can do is to stay away or stay away, instead of thinking about competing for high and low; like Just like playing in Texas, some positions seem to be unlucky. You must believe in the destiny and follow the destiny.
Your wife tells you how to be a man, tells you to be grateful, arranges everything in your life for you, and seems to be helping, but also destroying, destroying your unwilling heart as a man.
s2e13: Butterfly effect, after jane died of drug addiction, the father felt heartache and guilt to some extent, and the daughter was gone, the self who said no two seemed to have no meaning of existence, and returned to the previous work in aerospace broadcasting; Walt's wife finally discovered his way He chose to leave home and live with his sister, just as Walt was extremely depressed, Jane's father lost control of his emotions, resulting in a broadcast error, the plane crashed, maybe this is the real life; everything is so nonsense, there are too many accidents and It's out of control, it's better to be cautious than to enjoy it boldly, just like jane will not think that after threatening walt, he will overdose and die.
Learning how to make yourself healthy for a long time is much more important than blindly seeking speed, and the probability of waiting patiently to eat hot tofu will be greater.
Blindly reading books, watching movies or watching dramas is fine, just like brushing questions in the student days, but there must be a set of basic logic behind all books, dramas and movies, that is, the content of the book is actually unchanged, that is what we call basic knowledge , similar to the textbooks in textbooks; there are many tactics in the student era. In our limited time, we should work hard to think, observe and understand, and discover the essence, instead of being caught in the sea of questions and time-constrained and unable to extricate ourselves. Try To see the logic behind it, maybe you don't need to do so many questions. (Ti Hai is good, but it must not be a long-term solution, our life will be kidnapped by the title)
s3e1:S3e1: Who of you thinks that they can be rehabilitated (becoming confident, excellent, outgoing, optimistic, etc.), see, this is the first mistake we made, we should learn to accept ourselves first; ----- after the death of jane , jesse participates in mutual aid
When the plane crashed, many people saw injuries, pain, and death, but what Walt saw was that the disaster did not hurt anyone on the ground, and the plane was not full. History is more serious than this serious plane accident. 50 cases, how many people remember those 50 cases? Why do people forget, because human nature will look forward, time will dilute all the misfortunes and disasters in history, and human nature will also allow us to survive, we overcome, we survive!
Do you remember the Wenchuan earthquake, the past traffic accidents/depression/suicide/disease and so on, and then think about our current misfortune or loss or childhood misfortune, what is it?
There is nothing in life that is very important, and sometimes we can't get over our own psychological barrier.
Most of the time, we can only decide on ourselves, not others, be ourselves, lower our expectations of others, and find people in the same way
Breaking Bad, the main line is about walt's family feelings, and the sub-line may tell us whether loving family too much is just an obsession, maybe we can only love ourselves;
S3e4: The tragedy of walt, he is devoted to pharmaceuticals, and his heart is indeed for his wife and children to earn the money they need in this life; however, he is very good at pharmaceuticals/has the courage and courage to do things, which is reflected in finding distributors , from tuco to pollos; but the relationship management is really messed up, and this shortcoming is sometimes enough to kill a person; on the one hand, your strengths (good at pharmaceuticals and buying medicines, experienced people's life and death) make you very proud, your original intention ( The person is about to die, for the happiness of the family, the responsibility of the man) makes you have no hesitation; but the relationship handling is extremely bad (constantly lying in front of the wife, using one lie to make up the other lie, the existence of two mobile phones, the early rejection after illness Communication; Self-esteem is too strong, unwilling to accept medical treatment sponsorship from ex-lover, son's online donation, that is, unwilling to admit or accept that he needs help from others, hurting man's dignity; in the name of being good for the family, to act For money that kills people, making and selling drugs, imagine if the family can accept and use the money psychologically, have you ever thought about the family's feelings; if something happens to you in the process, what will the family think?)
This is like the wife said, as long as I go to sell, I can bring a lot of money to the family. As a man, can you accept the money that your wife treats for you to sell? From this point of view, Walt’s ability to empathize is also good What they lack; some things can never be said when they are done. If it is really good for the family, you will give them money in another way, even if you get the money for them;
Note: Some things should never be said, such as your financial situation, your personal situation, etc. People need privacy, even in the face of the most intimate people, the same people should control their own curiosity and ask less about others Privacy, less gossip; people need to think differently, think more about the status of others/his needs/his goals/what challenges he faces in reaching his goals; when we know everyone's situation, we can do well They have to consider their own value to them and the corresponding exchange. Human nature often has many, many needs, think about the needs of others, and then think about what you can provide to meet their needs.
s3e4: gus: I dont believe fear to be an effecive motivator, I want investment
The world is like that sometimes, not tolerant, prejudiced, vindictive, jealous, etc. We need their company and love, and we need to keep a distance from them;
s3e6: I'm an absolute liberal, people want what they want, and if I have what they want, why not give them great value for money? -----Gale
s3e12: Start with children, let you always listen to them, children are puppets
The help you thought might have hurt the other party, just like when Jesse learned that Combo was killed by a child, Walt worried about Jesse, and the end result was that both the child and the drug dealer died;
What is home? For children, home means love and warmth, but many children are still trapped in the suffering of their original family; for adults, home can be a support, but it is not as solid as imagined. Many times What we see is nothing but beauty on the outside. Tear off the coat, and there must be various problems inside. The best way may be to lower expectations. There are three types of runners in this world, short-term runners (100m sprinters), mid-line runners (3km sprint), and long-distance runners (21km sprint); have the courage to admit those 100-meter sprinters, and make your own long-term layout. Remember, sprint runners are distractions, learn from them until beyond, maybe as long as the last 1 year (10th year).
s3e13: Don't try to replace your boss easily. Your resource information and so on are far behind him. For example, gale naively thought that he could take over the work of walt and fulfill the expectations of the big boss gus, but he didn't want to kill him.
Analysis: Information asymmetry, the real reason for taking over; ambition and desire, harmful.
s4e1: The big boss's vision and pattern should be believed to be much higher than ours. Always remember to be cautious in words and deeds in front of the boss. There are no permanent friends, only common interests; Gu's deputy is young, thinking that he has been watching the walt drug production process , you can reach the walt level by yourself. A person who does not know much about chemistry can easily say that he can do it himself; you must know that the boss invests in all equipment, and the risks and benefits in it, young people sometimes grow too fast. It's a good thing, one day there will be big trouble because of the young edge, the so-called scenery should be far away;
When walt is critical, he ties himself and jesse to death. The loyalty and credit when necessary will definitely win people's hearts. Walt and jesse can be said to love and kill each other. Keeping a person is not necessarily because he treats you the same way, but it must be He deserves it; walt's classic quote: if jesse dies, you won't get me either.
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