When I saw the key point, the teacher jumped the tape - I still don't know if Tereza had a relationship with that man because of revenge! But it also happened to leave room for my imagination. I think with Tereza's personality, her character, her unswerving love for Thomas, and the importance of her attitude towards love, and her traditional and conservative treatment of love, she will not meet that woman by chance. man in a relationship.
On the other hand, the desperation of Thomas's promiscuity, hopelessness, and repeated sex with other women made it absolutely possible for her to do so. The cut of love, the deep hurt can be imagined! She had nightmares about Thomas finding other women for fun every day, she was suspicious, and her nose was as sensitive as a dog's (just sniffing Thomas' hair would tell if he was following Another woman had a relationship), suffering from infidelity and betrayal but hard to leave. However, what surprised me was that she went to have a relationship with the man, not to vent Thomas' betrayal of her, nor to get revenge on Thomas. Maybe there was such a fleeting thought of revenge at the beginning. However, more Yes, she just wanted to find out why Thomas was so happy to have sex with other women! Just to see if it's really that much fun! Just to explore the beauty of this loveless sex! That day she woke up in a nightmare, sweating profusely, grabbed Thomas like a helpless child in the water grabbing a lifebuoy, and begged, "Don't go looking for them again, okay? If you're going to look for them. They, please take me with you! You take me! I'll help you undress them." Hearing her words, my head really felt dizzy for a moment! As if she lost her self-esteem, she completely lost herself. Maybe love itself can make people put their self-esteem to the lowest position...
When I really understand that she takes her love so seriously, yes When the life she lives in is so important, I can understand that her seemingly bizarre behavior is so unexpected, but it is reasonable.
The themes are repeated over and over again in the film: light and heavy, faithfulness and betrayal, introspection and confusion. reveals the contradictions of human nature. It turns out that everyone has their own things that they value, and their own things that they despise.
Even the most condescending Thomas is no exception. It seems that he sees everything so lightly and lightly. Being light on sex, you can have a relationship with a woman who has no feelings, or even just met for the first time, anytime, anywhere, under any circumstances. Although he also likes and revels in Tereza's love, and I believe he loves Tereza too, because she relies on him for her innocence, frankness, and wholeheartedness, he is as close to Tereza as he always has been. having sex with different women outside. Even when he was banished to clean glass, he still did not forget to have fun with women! As his supervisor said, although he is a highly skilled brain doctor, he knows women better than brain structure.
It seems that he doesn't even care about his job, and he can easily lose the job that everyone envies. However, it hides what he really cares about, what he really cares about and what he really values. That is his work ethic, his principles of life. Refused to sign the confession, never seen him so firm and persistent, never seen him take something so seriously. At this time, if he can put one percent of his self-control on his love for Tereza, then Tereza should be thankful! However, it is precisely because of his emphasis on the principle of life that he is not so hateful in my eyes, and can even be said to be a little cute! I think this is also an important point for him, in addition to his handsome appearance and superb medical skills, to attract women to actively seduce him.
As for Sabina, she feels to me like a confused person who is always contradictory but knows what she is doing, and everything is just a very light thing to her. It has always been incomprehensible that when Franz came back to her and told her that he had divorced his wife, she was so tearful, so emotional, holding him in tears. Unexpectedly, when Franz opened the door again excitedly, what he saw was an empty building! Incomprehensible! Maybe all she really cares about is freedom. She is an artist and all she wants is her own and nothing else. She and Thomas were one of those people who wanted sex and no love. Maybe she is in love, but she hates kitsch so much, and once she has love with someone, everything will become kitsch, which is exactly what she can't bear. She is destined not to have complete love.
Theresa is a completely different type of person from the previous two. She attaches great importance to many things, she loves life, loves life, she longs for everything, she lives seriously, but her greatest sorrow is being betrayed again and again by her deeply loved husband , even though she guarded her husband so closely, she was just powerless. But what I admire about Tereza is that after the war began, she dared to block the muzzle of the gun with her small body and took a lot of valuable photos! How much courage it takes! I can't imagine how much incredible power is hidden in this little body!
Life always seemed to be joking with her. She regards love as her life, but she falls in love with a romantic person. She carefully guards her fragile love all day long, but she can't stop Thomas from messing around outside, until one day she finally breaks down and gives up. Fortunately, God was with her, and Thomas eventually went back to find her.
Those days in the country were probably Tereza's happiest days. A life in isolation with a loved one. In that paradise, I am afraid that it is difficult for even people to see a few, let alone women. She can finally sleep in peace and live in peace.
The ending may have been the best ending for Tereza.
There, she could finally stop worrying about Thomas' betrayal all day long. Finally, she was able to unload the burden of life on her petite body. She can finally be very light and light. In the kingdom of heaven, I believe she is smiling.
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