I can say wherever I want, I just want to catch the strange feeling that I don't know what to do after reading it. Maybe I will have a better statement in the future, but if I don’t use this feeling to write something and stay, I guess I will definitely regret it
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There is a saying that I have always been impressed by, friendship can become love, just like a towel can become a rag, but love can't go back to friendship, just like a rag when a towel is always disgusting and unbearable.
So when I saw it, I was very curious, thinking about the way the two get along. After thinking for a long time and summing up, I feel that this relationship is not love, but more of a family relationship based on friendship.
When switching to love mode, both want to change each other to achieve the "whole" in their eyes - I am motivated so you can't be loose, I'm casual so you must not be serious. The ultimate goal is to turn the other person into yourself.
The friendship mode is very good, maintaining a sense of distance, that is, in this mode, two people can be themselves, and can ignore each other's shortcomings and enjoy each other's company.
In fact, I didn't realize that this kind of friendship has sublimated into a family relationship in the long years since childhood, and it has naturally become a whole. This whole is not an integrated whole, but an inlaid whole.
I didn't realize the existence of family affection before, but I wanted to further the relationship between each other, so I accidentally became a discordant but well-matched couple.
Therefore, the sense of dislocation comes. If the goal of turning the other party into oneself in love cannot be achieved, the two people who have been worn out and exhausted in love have to go to the end of divorce. I believe that even if there is no pregnant third party The speedup will also be the same, because the reason is not at all, the result is just a matter of time.
However, I am more convinced that even after divorce, the connection between the two will continue, because in the journey of the two of them as a family, marriage has become an event that they have experienced together, a profound node that makes the family relationship more unbreakable.
I really envy the relationship between these two people, but unfortunately I don't think I can have this fate. Today, I have to live and die in order to maintain my life. I am not allowed to have the time and energy to establish such a deep connection.
You can't be disappointed without hope.
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