Say some of your thoughts.
Seeing the title of the play, it's quite unattractive. Married women revolve around the conflicting life of family and marriage. Let's take a closer look at the classification, same-sex, and continue to guess that it should be in married life. After lack of understanding, someone appears and makes the marriage. Someone who is good at thinking thinks that if he meets a soulmate, people say that soulmates are hard to find. In fact, it is easy for people to feel that they are in the same mind after getting along for a short time. A lot of asymmetric information makes both parties feel charming to each other.
Finally, on a certain night when I finished chasing "Dickinson" and felt confused, I opened the show and began to kill the time before going to bed. Who knows that this time was spent all night. There are two reasons for me not to. Sleep, one is the beautiful appearance of the two protagonists, and the other is the self-control that I have never developed.
I was very puzzled at first, what the protagonist is talking to himself, this is not completely a conventional marriage life, about the enjoyment in the early stage of marriage, and after the novelty, slowly killing each other's goodwill, and in life, watching him and I don't understand her, but I just use the worldly concept of money to measure his value in this marriage. His contribution in the family must not be wiped out. Their relationship is gradually like air, and it seems that it does not exist.
The other side of the protagonist a's life is his status as a university professor. It is inevitable that he will meet a friend who excites his soul, and he will also forcefully rehearse Shakespeare's repertoire for the follow-up relationship. It also confuses me, why A's husband can completely Isn't it a matter of pride to ignore one's wife's profession? If my daughter-in-law is a university professor, I should be able to blow it to the whole world, but maybe it has something to do with the political and cultural environment in India at that time, and maybe even today, they do not think that it is a glorious thing for my wife to teach at the university, but delay it. Serve the family as a full-time nanny.
p On the day that "Romeo and Juliet" was staged, I noticed a, and there were many times when she secretly watched her cry. At that time, as a wife, she had to swear her sovereignty virtually, although she would not take the initiative to view spy On her husband's life, despite her self-confidence, she still cares about her existence.
Looking at P's married life, this is the relationship I yearn for! They are attached to each other and can appreciate each other's feelings. No matter how the time passes, they always miss each other in their hearts, have loyalty to each other, and are as natural as the flow of water.
Then there is the stacking of contradictions, there are helpless contradictions in life, and there are contradictions that are forced to endure in politics. Many things are intertwined. A's life is like a pool of stagnant water. Although there are always stones thrown into the heart of the wave, there are always no ripples. . People are in a family that is not alone, but they are so lonely in their hearts, eager to be understood, eager to express, eager to be valued by those around them as themselves, but not valued by husbands, that’s all, parents-in-law and children are not valued, whatever. , I called my mother when I was the loneliest, but my mother also gave her the final disregard. My mother hoped that she could take good care of this family and marry you. Of course, I wanted you to be a woman and be a full-time nanny. day job. Maybe any kind of family relationship in life could not make her feel satisfied. The appearance of p made her completely listened to and needed, made her have the desire to speak, and made her feel that in addition to the quagmire of life, there is also The so-called dream, or the ability to face up to oneself, so p is just a coincidence. At this moment, whether q appears, or any one of x or y appears in any gender, it is the same for a, as long as ta has these characteristics, can Satisfying these emotional needs of a gives her an outlet, and she should not refuse her.
Then I talked about the emotional line between a and p in the play, crying → hugging → kissing, sometimes dancing, always lying on the other's shoulder, telling some plain words, but always poking in the heart of a, p said that a was the one who met him. As for the most special one, I just think it may be the most beautiful. A's is different, mixed with her complexity, her wife's identity, her mother's identity, all kinds of identities are mixed together, making her swallow her breath and obey. character, and then in the bottom of the endless well of life, the rebellion that wants to escape and wants to break free, put it on any thinking housewife, these character aspects will exist, but p meets a, which happens to be his own type That's all, talking about special, on the one hand, is to coax your girlfriend, and on the other hand, it is for the needs of the plot, and you have to reiterate it with your friends several times.
In the turbulent situation in the later period, when the two were preparing to embark on the road to Paris, the contradictions danced again, a has too many ties, only when every road is blocked, she will make up her mind and leave with p, In fact, she is constantly testing in her life to see if her husband can tolerate a step. If he is soft, even if he says soft words, she will stay. The biggest custom of men in the local area and even in the world) completely drove her to a dead end and was insulted, and her husband didn't think there was any problem with recruiting prostitutes outside (guessed), "I support my family, and the outside is just my entertainment. , it's not my fault, you made a mistake and cheated with a woman, and you have to use your big mistakes and my small flaws to talk about it, you really know the sky and the sky, look at the life I provide you, it's all free , or else how can you live in a high-end small foreign building without worrying about food and clothing?" I'm convinced... The free full-time nanny job is exchanged for a free life, as long as the free life is removed, and then the local average salary and living standards are used to make With an equivalent substitution, you can see if it is these things that a got for free. These women are well aware of these pain points and bear them silently.
So A sees her husband's attitude, humiliates her, sees her contribution as worthless, and has to talk about the disgust of homosexuality in front of friends and couples, and then use sex humiliation again before bed, which forces A to be in desperation She is reluctant to look for a chance to be born again, what she misses is only a pair of children, the bottom line of her mother, she is determined to leave, forcing the children to learn some necessary life skills, and then finally measure the height, and then the bus stop seems to say goodbye. . Almost everything she did was forced by her husband, but she happened to have p in her life, so she decided to go with p.
The most touching thing that A did was that P's mother came to tear down P's old bottom, and A resolutely asked what time the plane was. This gave P the most solid sense of security.
Immediately afterwards, when a learned of p's strong possessiveness, push himself was exposed in front of the aunt, push made a decision earlier, that kind of anger, that kind of grievance, that kind of self-consciousness suddenly awakened, you are just like h, you just want to give When I make decisions, I just want to control me. After all, I am a college literature teacher. The logic is really set. Why don't you think about why people push you, but you are a winner in life, family love blossoms, and people are under your little grace , just be your little darling, let the time in your cracks be manipulated, and enjoy the sweetness of the so-called love, you want to occupy all the good things, don’t break the comfort zone, and you don’t want to lose extramarital affairs (the so-called true love). Love you a little more, play a little smart, you are just like this, don't give a chance for fault tolerance. Of course, I can't say that a can ignore the problems of her reputation and child custody that this little cleverness brings, but since that's the case, you can make yourself stronger after going to Paris and then meet again Regarding your so-called reputation issues and real custody issues, you may not care about other people's rumors when your heart and economy are strong, and since the children have your rebellious genes, they may one day understand you. Why don't you think about the reason why P is doing this? P is afraid that you will keep trying, and this relationship will eventually end without a problem. What she wants is the complete you, love you, from body to soul, so she wants it very much The so-called "occupying" you. This should also be due to P's habitual lack of security as a Ji Lao, she is eager to catch someone she thinks special, and also hopes that this close relationship can last for a long time (all my guesses).
However, a gave her husband the patience after he oppressed him countless times, and was unwilling to forgive him for his blind possessiveness and cleverness because of his strong love. He let you down countless times, you decided to leave, she let you down once, you decided to give up. Is it because of the child, the ties are too deep, what Wang Xiaobo calls "the weak umbilical cord of history", there is also such an interweaving of carpet lines between a and her husband, so they keep cutting it. You can choose to divorce to escape this quagmire of marriage, but the last thing you need to do is take your shirt. After awakening like this, and even exhausting your lover's desire to control you, you return to the quagmire and live a life like stagnant water. . At the end, I can only say that a loves a person is never love for the soul, she loves the sense of security brought by a gender, and loves the excitement brought by the uncertain factors in life, but the sense of security is life. Necessary, and stimulation is just the adjustment of boring life. Then I sigh with emotion, never fall in love with a straight daughter, and never fall in love with a straight daughter who is married and has children.
I feel like a lion who is always looking for safety. It looks very fierce. It seems to be able to protect herself and her lover all the time. She can always resolve many things very smartly. Come forward, there must be a deeper reason for her out-of-control beating the domestic abuser, but there is no explanation in the play, the domestic abuse and the domestic abuser are also very interesting. The domestic abuser is punching and kicking the abuser Instead, intercede for the perpetrator, which is also very common in life, and people will never think that this is a problem (far away).
P fell in love with A so naturally, without reservation, and included the other party in his life and future. In A's future planning, there has never been p.
Suddenly I feel that there are so many restrictions that people have to endure in life. First of all, as a woman, you can't love women. You love women every time. Unlike you, this doesn't work, you are still rebellious, and again, you can't think about yourself when you have a married life, thinking about yourself is selfish and out of tune with society...
I've written so much, and it's all my own feelings. Maybe in many places, others may find it far-fetched. Whatever, if you read it and feel very disagreeable, sorry for ur time.
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