I have thought about this question and looked closely at what is the life of a successful woman? What are the essential elements.
Regarding a successful life, we will define it as a relatively complete life, both material and spiritual.
①In order to be successful in material things, either one has a successful career or someone worships it.
② If the mind is to be successful, there must be satisfactory interpersonal relationships, including: marriage, family, friends, and society.
Since there is only one state of spiritual success, the success of life can only be divided into two categories according to the different states of material success:
First, career success + spiritual success.
For example: RBG, Margaret Thatcher, etc.
Second, someone worship + spiritual success.
For example: rich wife, official wife, etc.
According to my observations, the typical characteristics of rich wives and official wives include: low career pressure, strong wealth (power), pampered, wealthy, happy and relaxed.
Sounds like a good idea, but it's actually very difficult to achieve.
First, such rich and official wives actually play the role of a supported person. In the marriage balance, your other half provides material that far exceeds yours. What can you provide him? In some of the existing cases, the parties are mainly those born in their 50s and 60s. When they were young, after the husband and wife had a deep relationship, the wife supported her husband's career, thought about the old relationship, did not care about the contributions of both parties, and had very high requirements on the man's character. Or, the woman has a very rich family business, has confidence, and has restraint on the man. Going around, you can't get around the word "equal", or you just look up to the sky and drop a good person, and the character is a mess.
In a word, it is getting harder and harder for this model to succeed in today's social environment of protecting the rich. After all, all substances depend on the supply of another partner. He wants to give it to you. If he doesn't want to give it to you, he really has no initiative at all. Lack of core competitiveness and lack of confidence.
Second, career success + spiritual success. This kind of thing requires women to shine by themselves, almost all-round superheroes, and have the other half meet certain conditions.
The all-round superwoman, taking RBG and Margaret Thatcher as examples, is full of workaholics, high IQ, high emotional intelligence, good education, and after decades of hard work, her career and fame have been harvested. However, please note that such a successful woman should not be the image of a strong woman as understood by the public, and their appearance must be full of femininity. Carefully observe RBG and Margaret Thatcher, their dress will highlight their female image, instead of making themselves the same as men, they love fashion, beauty, exquisite, decent, elegant, feminine. In general, it is a state of softness on the outside and firmness on the inside.
Besides, their husbands are almost the same, smart, loving, respectful, and supportive of their wives' careers. Such a man's personality must also be a combination of rigidity and softness. If he is too straight, he must be more self-centered, patriarchal thinking, and think that women should revolve around themselves, which may be emotionally and emotionally, lack of a kind of Compassionate and meticulous.
So, the conclusion is that a good man and a good woman must be both tough and soft. Women are soft with firmness, men are firm with softness.
In any case, we should cherish the situation where men and women can be considered equal in today's world, and not waste the rights that our predecessors fought for.
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