Once obscurity is identified, women can be freed from their guilt, they are eager to talk, they are obsessed and dependent on such identification, while men will go back and forth in venting and self-blame, their long-term need, and They are only briefly released.
The battered person's expectations for the batterer, the batterer's self-blame and self-control, are not some kind of deformed psychology, but just like people's performance in "love", only the satisfaction of pleasure has been replaced by the satisfaction of security. . Women can indulge for a long time, and men will blame themselves for it.
The way they think is deeply influenced by the way they each derive pleasure from sex, and by society's expectations of their respective identities.
They are so different, Adam and Eve, that even the most compatible couples can slowly tear apart their love if they fail to recognize the difference in how they think about each other.
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