I broke the cup, but I just don't want to tell it, I just want to put it there, all as if nothing happened. Because everyone here is like this, I have never seen a place more frustrating than yours here. Everyone is too fragile and cannot tolerate hearing even a single truth.
---Angla,S1EP10,Six feet under
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Because of various The reason is that I came into contact with many originally enviable happy families earlier. Because of the sudden death of a leader, I was immediately flooded with all kinds of irreconcilable contradictions, the whole family fell apart, and finally the whole process collapsed. The first one, after the younger son passed away due to an accident, the eldest son and his mother immediately calculated the widow and orphans who were still immersed in pain and unable to extricate themselves. Then there was a tug of war that lasted for three years, and finally the old couple was afraid of Others said they didn't dare to go out, and the mother and son ended up going far away. Second, after the grandmother who was in charge of the family died of illness due to overwork, the family has been in a slump since then, the relationship between siblings has deteriorated, and the care of the sick grandfather is neglected. Eventually, the grandfather also passed away, and the relatives finally stayed out of each other. The third, after the death of the only old man in the family, because of the inheritance, he fought hard, and finally reached the situation of scolding me and relying on your mother and fucking your sister.
If these things can ultimately be attributed to the word benefit. I think these are understandable and tolerable.
So can it be inferred that if we are prosperous and no longer have to worry about economic problems, can a family be always happy and good, and relatives can always live in peace, so we can avoid hurting each other like this?
The Fisher family completely denied this naive idea of mine.
The eldest son, Nate, is resolutely unwilling to inherit his father's inheritance and ran away to live on his own. The second son, David, forbeared his desire to miss the law school and took on the family business, but he avoided the family and slept with a man outside. The youngest daughter Claire, who was in her adolescence, couldn't find her presence at all, and vented her dissatisfaction through love. What's more terrible is that such an old wife is still stealing people outside. Whether Mr. Fisher knows these or not, a car accident can be regarded as a relief to him, and he is completely ignored. But these members of the family are not calm, each with a posture of enlightenment, the eldest son is finally coming back to do his best for his father. The second son turned all the sadness into anger towards the boss. The youngest daughter even intensified to gain a sense of presence with crazy behavior. The wife is even more remorseful.
What I love about TV shows is that the time scale for observing people is much longer and more detailed than movies. Movies are too fond of highlighting people's transformation and persistence, but the truth is that, as Yao Chen said, people are a deadly virtue. Many things cannot be changed, and many more things cannot be persisted. Brenda drags her sick brother into Nate's life, loving this woman to the bones, but what to do with this quirky brother who will secretly line up two people to have sex when he is sick? David and Keith broke up inexplicably. David put all his feelings in the lower body to solve. He and his dance teacher who likes 3P have always practiced bareback. The wife began to waver between two men who pursued her.
Do you really think you know these people who live with you all day and who have the most direct, so-called strongest blood relationship with you?
Have you really opened up to each other completely?
Nate also found out that his father was smoking marijuana in a room outside the house, looking for a prostitute, and releasing another self when he checked the accounts. This family in the funeral industry looks calm on the surface, but the communication between people is pitiful. The blood is thicker than the water is a relatively silent state that is difficult to hide. Because everyone has a side of themselves that this family cannot tolerate. Everyone just wants to maintain the status quo and cannot tolerate a single truth. The most essential loneliness of life does not come from other places, but from a different side of yourself. Even if it is integrated into the family, it cannot be resolved.
I have never watched a show more desperate than this one, but there are indeed many families far more desperate than Fisher's.
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