Alice and Adam couldn't help but glance at each other in the crowd when they first met. There are many ways to fall in love, and they are explosive mad love. It only takes the right place and the right time to ignite the passion, and once it is ignited, it will be out of control.
The inflection point of the plot appeared after the marriage, and the threatening letters continued to appear. Did curiosity kill the cat? No, curiosity is normal. Did a crisis of confidence kill the cat? No, a crisis of confidence is normal, and we often doubt ourselves, our boyfriends, our husbands and wives. But neither curiosity nor a crisis of trust prevents us from growing and moving on together. These are the processes of growth. So, what is the answer, let's explore together:
In fact, Adam is not shy about talking about his past, he told Alice at the beginning: i lost my whole team, and i was in love with her. But I still cant figure out what went wrong, every check point passed. But Adam is really completely I don't know, have you been kept in the dark by your sister? Or is he protecting his sister? I think he knows what his sister did~ Adam has a love for his sister that he doesn't know how to deal with... Adam was raped by his sister when he was 15 years old. Such an incestuous relationship is devastating for underage youth. According to relevant research reports abroad, almost one in five men (19%) and 10% of women enjoy sexual abuse in bed. These people are sexually aroused by the thought of being hurt and humiliated by others. Adam was ashamed of having sex with his sister, not only because it was unethical, but he was probably ashamed because he was getting pleasure out of it. Maybe that's why he likes to play bundles? All shame is rationalized, all shame seems safe under his control. In his relationship with his sister, the sister is always on the controlling side, while the younger brother has always been controlled by his sister's love. I know from the fact that my sister did not hesitate to destroy my brother's reputation, that my sister's love is suffocating, just like the suffocation feeling in the sky, which is challenging and dangerous. Adam felt suffocated by it, but he didn't know how to deal with it. He chose to escape, locked up his sister's letters, and locked up his sister's harm to him, so he was safe. In the binding game, if you tie up your lover, it seems that you will not be hurt, and everything is under your control. The reason why Adam knew that his sister started to take Alice away from him but couldn't fully confess to Alice was to protect his sister and himself. Once the truth is exposed, you will have to face the past hurt. Lock it up to maintain a sense of inner security. However, leaving her sister unchecked does only more harm and puts Alice at risk.
I think Alice is very guilty, wrong to blame Adam. Love and fate are inseparable from the right time and place as mentioned at the beginning of the article, which means that one of the foundations of love is fate. When Alice shot and killed her sister, she and Adam were all over. Although she liberated Adam from her sister, Adam could love freely in the future, but the truth was revealed, and Adam had to face the loss Controlling the situation, facing the past, facing the bloody love, he is vulnerable at this time. He couldn't continue with the person who killed his sister and opened the safe zone he had tried his best to maintain. Once the fate was exhausted, the fate was exhausted, and there was no going back. Fate can be the match that ignites love, or the carbon dioxide that extinguishes the last spark.
Alice says at the end of the movie what if i didnt looked up that day, what would have happened. If there was an if, if Adam said it would be: What if I said no to my sister and turned her in. He and Alice Will there be a happy ending without missing it? However, Adam's sister has firmly bound him, and he can't get out of the shadow of his sister's love.
So, what exactly is the grave of love? What killed the cat?
Trust is very important to Adam, so when Adam was playing the game of bondage and surrender with Alice, he asked Alice: Do you trust me? Alice: Yes. Alice never doubted Adam at first sight. even more. Relying on their inner intuition, they resolutely got married, and what they had at this time was trust that did not require any proof. But why is trust so important in this film? Because if Alice trusted Adam, she wouldn't fall into the trap of her sister's murder. Trust is the perfect solution for Adam not to break the illusion of safety, not to hurt anyone, not to hurt his sister, not to hurt his lover, he and Alice can still go further on the road of love. But in the context of a quick flash marriage and a series of threatening letters, complete trust can be said to be impossible. If it's simply due to trust, then it's over. Most people's marriages have a crisis of trust. But it's not that all marriages with a crisis of trust are finished. What is the last straw that bends the marriage?
Then I guess, the grave of love is probably unable to get out of its own safety zone and compete with the seemingly insurmountable hurdle. Whether it is marriage or love, it requires the efforts of both parties. For Adam, it was to look directly at the evil things his sister did to him, to face the fact that he was a victim in the past, to stop his sister's control in the name of love, and to confess everything to Alice. From Adam's binding of Alice's limbs, it can be seen that no matter how much Adam wanted to keep Alice and how much he wanted her to trust him not to fall into his sister's conspiracy, he still chose to protect her sister and hurt himself and the people he loved. For Alice, stepping out of the safe zone meant trusting her instincts and sharing her threats more directly with Adam. Judging from Alice's shy personality and her first boyfriend who has left safety, she also likes to stay in her comfort zone. Adam took her out of one comfort zone, but he couldn't take her beyond the other, because he was in it himself. If Alice can face Adam directly, maybe it can encourage Adam to get out of the comfort zone together, and Adam can also help Alice lift the crisis of trust... Only through mutual efforts can save this love. What they lack is to look directly into each other's heart at the traffic light Deep determination and courage. Love and adventure are fun, and determination and courage are relatively simple; but uncovering scars and healing can be painful and difficult, and only couples who also give determination and courage in the face of adversity can go further.
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