feelings

Camden 2022-03-22 09:02:29

I watched two movies recently, Northeast Love, and Golden Pond. Crying incessantly.

A movie can capture love or family affection into the hearts of others, and let people with soft hearts collide with each other. It's a lucky thing.

Yu Tie in Tohoku Lover is very good to the woman he likes. After sending her home, he kicked stones on the snow and walked back reluctantly. That stone is also full of emotion. In the golden pond, Roman called his daughter's name while fishing. Before her daughter finally reconciled, she told Roman that I want to be your friend too. This sentence converts all childhood grievances into a kind of demand, and the iceberg has begun to melt. People and people are so weird sometimes. Obviously there is an answer. But never asked for decades. Obviously want to love, but never take the step without turning back. Obviously thinking, this meaningless thinking may not be worth mentioning in the other party, so I can only give up.

When I was young, because I liked others, I would give gifts on my birthday, and I wrote torn and torn letters. After the birthday, everyone chatted a few words lightly, and then year after year. All of a sudden, it felt like there was no point in doing everything. Others don't give you the feeling of caring you want. And this sense of meaninglessness is actually a love that has become less certain over time. Everything stems from the existence and passing of love within oneself.

But now there is still such a person in my heart. If I forget it, it will not work for the time being, and I don't know what to say when contacting her. Occasionally, I think about buying something to make her happy. It will feel that the other party does not care if the courtesy is light. The courtesy is heavy, and the self unconsciously expects the other party's reaction. I don't know what to do with this heavy weight. All of this must be a reflection of his own overwhelm. For this emotion, I didn't have the courage to go further, and I was unwilling to take a step back. So just exist. Time has no sympathy for the two of us. What can stay in your heart. It's up to you. This sense of fairness, how can we say that we have never been free. Stop thinking about how the other person can treat you, spend your time guessing about others, and do what you want to do. Thinking about him is something that makes you happy, just think about it, and then think about falling asleep on a sunny afternoon. Thinking about him will make you sleepless and uncomfortable, so don't think about it, starting from knowing, the first quarrel, reconciling, ignoring each other again and again. Now is the time to hold the emotional switch. When the turbulent waves finally transformed into a long stream of water. How could there be any reason to be unhappy.

Work hard and be nice to people who are nice to you. For those who are not good to herself, maybe she will help when she needs help. Life is just like this. When she is not understood by others, she will understand others more. Forgive others when you can't forgive yourself. As long as you live long enough, everything will come back one day

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  • Grayson 2022-03-28 09:01:08

    A warm and relaxing family movie, an interesting old couple, a beautiful golden pond, the family love is told naturally and truly in a slow-moving story, Henry Fonda and Katharine Hepburn's acting skills are very good, no wonder they both won awards

  • Jaylin 2022-03-23 09:02:50

    One of my favorite movies when I was a child, Katharine Hepburn + Henry Fonda + Jane Fonda, plain and beautiful family.

On Golden Pond quotes

  • Billy Ray: A canoe! Just like the Indians used.

    Norman: Actually, the Indians used a different grade of aluminum.

  • Bill Ray: You're having a good time, aren't you?

    Norman: Huh?

    Bill Ray: Chelsea told me all about how you like to have a good old time with people's heads. She does too, sometimes. Sometimes I can get into it and sometimes not. I think you should know, I'm pretty good at recognizing crap when I hear it. You know, it's not imperative that you and I become friends. I thought it would be nice. I'm sure you're a very fascinating person, and I thought it would be fascinating getting to know you. That's obviously not an easy task... No. You just go ahead and be... as poopy as you want, to quote Chelsea, and I'll be as receptive and as pleasant as I can be. But I want you to bear one thing in mind while you're jerking me around, making me feel like an asshole. I know precisely what you're up to. I'll take just so much of it. Ok?... Now what is the bottom line on this illicit sex question?

    Norman: Very good. That was a good speech. Bottom line, huh? You're a bottom line man? All right, here's the bottom line... Okay.

    Bill Ray: Hm?

    Norman: You seem like a nice man. A bit verbose, but nice...

    Bill Ray: Thank you.

    Norman: ...and you're right about me. I am fascinating.

    Bill Ray: I'm sure you are.

    Norman: Let's get back to talking about sex... anything you want to know, just ask me.

    Bill Ray: No, I just... uh, I just wanted to clear up that little question. Chelsea and I can sleep together, right?

    Norman: Sure, please do.

    [pauses, resumes reading]

    Norman: Just don't let Ethel catch you.