Not many people are able to balance these kinds of negative emotions after a contusion very well. Some people don't know how to talk, and some people can't talk. I always think that comforting others is a very painful and difficult thing, because emotions are always regulated by individuals, and the strength of others is in the final analysis. Your importance to take on some channel of catharsis. And does everyone have their own outlet? The answer is that many don't and don't know.
As a doctor, Alan is very kind, caring about everyone's thoughts, and very considerate. In other words, he is a man who doesn't know how to say no, and he is a man who is not good at expressing himself. He seemed to live a very happy life, a decent job, a happy family, but he always dreamed of "sitting on a motorboat" and he was alone.
A man who used to like to sleep naked, a man who used to have a very happy family and a poodle. One day, he suddenly lost all his relatives. The huge disaster bruised him, and the huge pain he couldn't heal himself, so he got autism and depression. All the things he wanted to do with his relatives, he chose to pretend that they didn't exist, and he deceived himself to live in his own world. Redecorating the kitchen once a month, and playing games of certain monsters day and night in front of a huge screen while staying at home. Riding his electric scooter around the city, he must wear his MP4 where there is a voice, and the sound is loudest. This man, he's Charlie, he isolates himself.
Have you ever seen yourself in the two of them? There are many things that we can't say and things that we can't refuse. More and more, they are squeezed together, without resolving this pressure. People can no longer say anything, because you feel that the other party may not understand if you say it, and you are tired of explaining anything. Then you are Alan.
If the problem cannot be solved, I don’t think about it, I don’t want to hear it, I don’t even want someone to mention it, I hide and pretend that the problem doesn’t exist. We are Charlie this time.
The film ends well, with Charlie looking for a way of life that suits him. Just let it be. We should do the same, find an outlet for you to vent, find a way for you to release your negative emotions, even if it's weird and boring, or even if you only dare to think about it but never do it. (I didn't let you do anything illegal)
Just to live better for your heart.
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