Kangtai and Shangtai have a symbiotic relationship. Kang Tai completely depends on his brother for his life value. On the one hand, he protects him. Kang Tai uses this to isolate himself from the world, because the value of his life is his brother, and he has no life of his own. Kang Tai moves from time to time, nominally for his brother, but in fact, to avoid the growing network of connections for himself. He dares not allow himself to have a network, and he does not dare to allow himself to have a relationship other than his brother, because he regards himself as A vassal of his brother. I'm not Kangtai, I'm Shangtai's umbrella. Moon Young sees through Shang Tai from the beginning, calling him "hypocritical". Because he seemed to be doing it for his brother, but in fact he couldn't find his worth, so he tied himself with his brother, and actively made himself a vassal. The reason why Kang Tai rejected Wen Ying was: I was tired enough to take on my brother alone, and could no longer take on anyone's needs for me. This ignites Wen-young, who has to make Kang-tae realize that he trapped himself and forced himself to take care of his brother who could have been independent as the value of his life and a reason to avoid real relationships and real life. Wenying took Shangtai away and worked for Shangtai's illustrator, making him independent from Kangtai. Wenying appeared, and his brother liked Wenying, which actually made Kangtai uneasy all the time, because he faintly felt that his brother had his own pursuits, his own hobbies, and his own life, and Shangtai no longer completely belonged to Kangtai. Kang Tai can no longer regard his brother as his vassal object, and the value of his life has nowhere to attach. Therefore, Kang Tai will always ask his brother: "Me and Wen Ying, who do you like more? Brother, you are my everything." Such a question fully reveals Kang Tai's anxiety about his brother's self-consciousness. In fact, Shang Tai has always been self-aware, starting from saving money to buy an RV. It means that he is not always the protected person in the relationship, and he is also consciously taking care of Kang Tai. Kang Tai asked his brother why he was saving money, but he kept it a secret and didn’t answer. When Kang-tae said, "My brother also has a secret," the expression of loss, anxiety, and injury is worth pondering. My brother has his own life, so what's the use of Kangtai? Therefore, when Kang Tai found out that his brother had signed an agreement with Wen Ying alone to stay at her house as an illustrator, Kang Tai was very angry and tore up the agreement. Shang Tai was furious, chased after Kang Tai, and kept repeating a sentence: "Shang Tai is Shang Tai's, not Kang Tai's." This sentence was originally said by Kang Tai when he was a child. Paradoxically, Kang Tai later forgot that he was not Shang Tai's, and was successfully killed by his mother. He was also brainwashed by himself to become a vassal of Shangtai, but Shangtai kept it in his heart, and it has always been clear-Shangtai is Shangtai's, not Kangtai's. When Shang Tai beat Kang Tai, he repeated this sentence Then, Kang Tai was shocked. It turned out that Shang Tai knew who he was and who he belonged to, only Kang Tai. It turns out that Kang Tai has been deceiving himself and taking time out to protect the Shang Tai who does not need to be protected. It turns out that the person who regards himself as his brother's vassal is not his mother who has been brooding, but himself. Heart turned upside down. Kang-tae went home in despair. When the landlady learned that Shang Tai had left, she inadvertently woke up Kang Tai: Your brother will one day live on his own, and you can't protect him for the rest of his life. At this point, Kang Tai finally understood: I belong to myself, and my brother belongs to him. I love him and protect him, but my worth is only in myself. Kang Tai moved to Wen Ying's house and no longer blocked Shang Tai's "career". Although he still went to find his brother, at this time, he had changed. It is really amazing that Koreans have portrayed such a profound and complex psychological component in the capacity of 6 episodes. First let the audience see how warm Kang Tai is taking care of his brother, and then show a little bit that his brother can actually take care of his own life. Kang Tai isolates himself from the world while taking care of his brother, and has been trapped in an endless loop of avoiding reality and avoiding memories. This dead end caused the rampant Gao Wenying to tear up a breach - taking Shang Tai, Kang Tai was "abandoned" by his brother and forced to face his childhood and face his true self. This process is cruel and suffocating, but it is the only way for him to grow up, and he must endure the pain and attack. Tai, Kang Tai was "abandoned" by his brother and forced to face his childhood and face his true self. This process is cruel and suffocating, but it is the only way for him to grow up, and he must endure the pain and attack. Tai, Kang Tai was "abandoned" by his brother and forced to face his childhood and face his true self. This process is cruel and suffocating, but it is the only way for him to grow up, and he must endure the pain and attack.
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