A journey that tastes like soda, cigarettes and sincerity

Toby 2022-03-24 09:03:17

This is the journey of two lonely and sensitive hearts colliding, with the taste of soda, cigarettes and sincerity, as the reporter said in the film:

"When I think about this journey, I think about David sitting in the front seat with me in his car, we were both so young, he wanted more than he already had, and all I wanted was what he already had. What we have, we don't know where our lives are going.

Those conversations were some of the best conversations I've ever had, David thinks the existence of books makes people forget about loneliness, and if I could I would say to David that those days with him weren't about taking me out of life, but It was a reminder of what life should be like, and I would tell him it made me feel less alone. "

This interview in the movie also reminded me of the interview experience Xu Zhiyuan mentioned in "Thirteen Invitations":

"The original purpose began to retreat, and I became more and more attracted to the visiting process. I liked to have exciting, sometimes salty conversations with them, and sometimes even fell into embarrassed silence... No matter how self-righteous you are, you can't get through. After a few hours of getting together, you claim to understand another person. But the conversation has its own logic, it forces both sides to outline their own contours and look into their own hearts. People seem to reveal themselves more easily in front of strangers.”

Really profound interviews are not KPI-style surveys, or digging out eye-catching exclusive rumors, not to listen to a few beautiful words from idols, so that you can understand and change your life in a few minutes. The interview itself is a kind of intrusion, but as the interviewer's true temperament and inner face become more exposed and involved, the underlying emotions such as the anger and anxiety aroused by the interviewee have become the key to see each other.

I am very pleased that the two have maintained a polite restraint in the painful inner analysis from the question-and-answer role of one-way obedience to the sharp probing of each other.

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Extended Reading
  • Claud 2022-03-24 09:03:17

    Wallace himself realized that he was too American, and it was rare for such a person to live past thirty-four. Find Infinite Jest to read it another day

  • Braeden 2022-03-28 09:01:09

    The last stop of the follow-up interview book fair cruise. The vanity and fear of art creation, simple life dialogue, it feels good

The End of the Tour quotes

  • David Foster Wallace: It may be in the old days what was known as a spiritual crisis: feeling as though every axiom in your life turned out to be false... and there was actually nothing. And that you were nothing. And that it's all a delusion and you're so much better than everybody 'cause you can see how this is just a delusion, and you're so much worse because you can't fucking function.

  • David Foster Wallace: I'm not saying watching t.v. is bad, or a waste of your time anymore than - like - masturbation is bad or a waste of your time; it's pleasant little way to spend a few minutes - but if you're doing it 20 times day; if your primary sexual relationship is with your hand - something is wrong...

    David Lipsky: Yeah, except with masturbation at least some action is being performed, right; isn't it that, that's better?

    David Foster Wallace: Ok; you can make me look like a real dick if you print this...

    David Lipsky: [laughs] No, I'm not going to - but if you can, speak into the mike...

    David Foster Wallace: Yes, you're performing muscular movements with your hand as you're jerking off. But what you're really doing, I think, is you're running a movie in your head. You're having a fantasy relationship with somebody who is not real... strictly to stimulate a neurological response. So as the Internet grows in the next 10, 15 years... and virtual reality pornography becomes a reality, we're gonna have to develop some real machinery inside our guts... to turn off pure, unalloyed pleasure. Or, I don't know about you, I'm gonna have to leave the planet. 'Cause the technology is just gonna get better and better. And it's gonna get easier and easier... and more and more convenient and more and more pleasurable... to sit alone with images on a screen... given to us by people who do not love us but want our money. And that's fine in low doses, but if it's the basic main staple of your diet, you're gonna die.

    David Lipsky: Well, come on.

    David Foster Wallace: In a meaningful way, you're going to die.