Emotional story of the crowd recently: The boyfriend is in good condition in all aspects, and the two get along very well, but the man doesn't want to get married, and the girl feels aggrieved. Of course it’s true that girls want to get married. Everyone is profit-seeking. If you think marriage can be beneficial, then go for it! The most uncomfortable thing about this is that girls are unwilling to admit their own thoughts, so they feel aggrieved and awkward.
This story reminds me of the eldest lady of "Downton Abbey", and it would be interesting to compare it with the girls above. The role of the eldest miss is that her parents prefer her, she is protected by her grandmother, and even the old housekeeper loves her alone. If it is written according to the domestic romance, then she must be a fool and sweet, who doesn't care about world affairs, is innocent, and wishes that everything would be the same. Pink, hahahahaha. But what kind of person is she? Thin, pale, snobbish, selfish, indifferent, mean, these things don't affect her charm at all! Taunting her for running on her sister is not soft at all, she doesn't hide what she wants, and she dares to admit that she has done bad things. Of course, she has no fear, because the whole family will help her. She has been raised as a heiress since she was a child, dares to face her inner desires, always analyzes the pros and cons without caring about the so-called "lady norm", considers all issues from her own perspective, dares to be a real villain, not a hypocrite.
In our culture, too many people dare not face their inner desires: I want it, but I dare not say it, dare not fight for it, I am afraid that others will look down on me because of this, so my heart is depressed and distorted. There are too many harsh requirements of the environment, especially for women, we are all raised as good wives and mothers, not female heirs, this is the biggest difference between the two.
The behavioral model of a good wife and good mother is to belong to others and not have their own ideas. The heiress is always loyal to herself, like the eldest lady above, and Scarlett "Gone with the Wind", they are all fresh and attractive lives. As for how others evaluate them, Who care?
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