The gap between like and love should be understood slowly - "Pride and Prejudice" film review

Ulises 2022-03-22 09:02:04

Many people like a scene in the book "Pride and Prejudice", that is, Darcy comes out of the morning fog and becomes the white moonlight of countless girls. But what I have always remembered deeply is the first confession that Darcy had to Elizabeth. Every time I read it, I always felt that it was a person's most real feelings. It's not a simple sentence, it's not "I like you" or "I love you", he can't control his feelings in the conflict, this is the most moving feeling, knowing that you don't Imperfect, but still deep in the mud, unable to extricate themselves. Maybe she is not the best or the most suitable, but she is the one I love the most, without weighing the pros and cons, just because no matter what, I just love you. Just like Darcy's confession. What struck me was not his confession, but his admiration for Elizabeth. Imagine the feeling of a wealthy young handsome man admiring a pastor's daughter. Maybe it is at that moment that I suddenly understand what is like and what is love. Liking is love at first sight. Elizabeth said that she has no hope for marriage at all, so in her inner world, she has always resisted the option of marriage. As for why, it was because of her parents. The father covets the beauty of the mother's youth. Married a woman with a narrow mind and no superhuman intelligence. After that, the father let the mother do as he would, as long as he did not disturb his purity, he was not a good husband. Like is the joy at first sight, and love is long-lasting. How many people get married and have children on impulse because they are greedy for their beauty for a while when they are young, and then slowly walk the road of life, tormenting themselves and others. The first thing that makes people excited is the things that make people's eyes shine. They are all things that float on the surface. It is like a colorful bubble, which bursts with a light touch. Without deep communication, there will naturally be much less fun with each other. Just like Elizabeth's father, his world is basically unconnected with his mother. Except for being stupid enough to make him happy, the rest of the time is spent in the countryside scenery and his study. Have fun in it. Because of the father's stupid choice of marriage, only a few younger sisters lost the dignity that a girl should have because of her mother's correct guidance. People are always eager to step into the next direction without understanding the root cause of these emotions, which is neither long-lasting nor affectionate. If you like a flower, if you want to pick it off and take it home, you will like it, and you will love it if you put energy into it and take care of it to grow naturally. As the fox said to the little prince in "The Little Prince": "To me, you are just a little boy, like other Like thousands of little boys. I don't need you, and you don't need me either. for you. I'm just a fox, just like thousands of other foxes. However, if you tame me. We will need each other, for me, you will be the only one in the universe, and I will be the only one in the world for you. "Love is the first confession of admiration to Elizabeth by Darcy. When it comes to admiration, it is the subtlety of an author. I specially read the English original, and Darcy is indeed in love. You added an admire before. The emotion that can best explain the word admiration is a sentence in Fan Ye's Biography of Li Gu in the Later Han Dynasty of the Southern Dynasties Song Dynasty: "After Yao died in the past, Shun admired him for three years. Yao is in the soup.” The meaning of this sentence is that after the death of Emperor Yao, Yu Shun admired and mourned for three years. When he was sitting, he seemed to see Yao on the wall, and when he was eating, he seemed to see Yao in the soup. When you sit, you see Yao on the wall, and when you eat, you see Yao on the soup. It can be seen that Yu Shun's admiration has reached the extreme. Admiration jumps out of the level of liking, not because you are good to me, nor because of your beauty, nor because of your extraordinary charm, but because you are helplessly attracted to you. Just like Darcy, seeing Elizabeth's family made him feel ashamed, even if Elizabeth came from a humble background, aside from these worldliness and identities, Darcy admired the person who did not surprise him at first sight. Even if Elizabeth is someone who is recognized by others as not matching Darcy, it is not glamorous. Darcy is just overwhelmed by it. He admires her, so he loves her. Love her arrogance and love her prejudice against herself, because in Darcy's heart Elizabeth is unparalleled. Love is formed gradually involuntarily. Your shortcomings and your strengths are the care and compassion that I yearn for. Likes are changeable, and love is heartless. Elizabeth, who was very unhappy with Darcy, also had thoughts on Wickham, and Wickham did not hide her admiration for Elizabeth. It's just that Wycombe just likes Elizabeth. She likes all girls who can stand by his side, including Darcy's sister and Elizabeth's sister. Facts have proved that Wycombe is what the world calls a scumbag. He failed to deceive Darcy's sister, turned around and deceived Elizabeth's sister, and eloped with her. In fact, during this elopement, he was just asking for money. He didn't really like anyone, he was just an emotional liar who was good at playing with women. With Darcy's status, there are many suitors around him, including his good friend's sister. But Darcy, after being misunderstood by Elizabeth many times, was still affectionately right. Helping her with her family affairs can also be said to be a scandal. At that time, a family was in the same spirit, one prosper and one loss, and even when Elizabeth felt that she really couldn't be with Darcy anymore, Darcy didn't give up on her. He walked affectionately out of the morning mist, and walked towards the heart of Elizabeth, who had sunk into the bottom of the valley. When Elizabeth later asked him when she fell in love with her, he said, "I can't tell when or where. When I saw your expression and heard your words, I began to fall in love with you. That was a long time ago. It was when I couldn't extricate myself that I found out that I fell in love with you. "Like is passionate, it seems to be fraternity, but in fact it only loves yourself. Love is the most specific and deepest. Only the heart can see everything, the eyes are invisible, may your affection not be let down, the world is easy A priceless treasure, a lover is rare in life.

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Pride and Prejudice quotes

  • Kitty Bennet: I thought Mary sang very ill.

    Elizabeth Bennet: Yes, poor Mary. But she is determined to do it.

  • Mr. Bennet: Til you or your sister Jane return, I shall not hear two words of sense spoken together.