One side is blood relatives, and the other is the grace of parenting. If you put them together, you can choose one. How can you choose? In the movie "Like Father Like Son", this deepest emotional problem of human beings is explored.
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Teacher Yang Fan asked: Which of the two families do you think is better? How could you be willing to go to someone's house?
Student A: It's good for a multi-family family. It's a bit like a human life. Although the other family is a senior, I feel very depressed and cold.
Student B: I think a family of three is good, relaxed and easy. With more than one child, I am trapped in emotional entanglements every day, which is too tiring.
Teacher Yang Fan said:
If you don't see the status of the two families clearly, you have no choice. You can only fall into a good and a bad perspective, and forget to see what the good and bad of the two families are.
Such two families, one is a family of three with a small number of people, looks more advanced, but there seems to be something missing inside, which makes them very anxious. They are overwhelmed by relationships and have a hard time grasping the scale of interactions between people.
It seems that there are only orders between people, only rejection or acceptance, only flattery and hypocrisy.
As for the other family, they are very real, but they are very sticky, they are very low-level, but very warm, they are very chaotic but very orderly, that is, you can see that they can be messed up, fight together, and sleep together , but there seems to be an internal order.
Just now a classmate said depression. In fact, these two families are very repressed, but the multi-family family suppresses the desire for material things, and the three-member family suppresses the desire for emotion.
Teacher Yang Fan said
On a larger scale, the incident in the film started when a nurse deliberately held the wrong child because she was jealous of how happy the family of three looked. This seemingly individual act, in my opinion, is an expression of the collective unconscious. In my opinion, there is no individual behavior in this world, all individuals can only exist in the collective, and individual behavior is just an expression of the collective unconscious.
If you check it out, you will find that there were many incidents of this kind of wrong baby being reported in Japan in that era, and it became a social phenomenon. It seems that when the economy was highly developed, blood became a victim, and then the director asked a question, what should we do? Woolen cloth?
When a family of three is dealing with the world, it is more likely to be good at functional cooperation, and a multi-family family is more likely to be a holistic cooperation. The overall cooperation is more suitable for the agricultural society. Everyone cooperates with each other. Everything is based on a deep emotional foundation. Everyone does this thing for everyone's survival, that is, eating and dressing. This part is very primitive. Lack of creativity, but very stable.
Teacher Yang Fan said
Rationality and emotion, do we encounter a watershed here, and what kind of life should we choose, do we need to completely abandon another characteristic?
In my personal opinion, a high-level person does not suppress and suppress desire, nor control, but balance.
This is no longer the category of psychology, but is already Chinese culture. Psychology talks about breaking low-level defenses and establishing high-level defenses. In my opinion, people need to eat both meat and vegetables, and they need to poop and pee.
Balance means that the length of life and the process of life include various changes in life from shallow to deep, it is not just a state, but various states in change.
Therefore, the only way for the two families in the film to solve this problem is to have two families in one family. Both children are our children. The first one to understand this is the little boy. This is a kind of Chinese wisdom. It's my dad, and then let dads know that both kids are my kids.
Who is really the most powerful is the little boy who was wrongly embraced by a family of three. In his blood there is a part that looks sticky from another family, but also a part that is very emotional. I am willing to consult with that child, he will well developed.
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