It's been a long time since I watched a movie, and I can't describe how I feel after watching it. The way the whole film is narrated is very restrained. There is no intention of ordinary movies during the viewing process. The story of a family of four, everyone has their own temperature and characteristics. My mother is a nurse. She looks ordinary, but when she takes care of the disabled and the elderly who have lost their ability to take care of themselves, she shines. It is such a person who shines that it is more distressing when she is emotionally broken down. It makes people feel like this is not what she should bear. Two of her most touching moments for me were at the bus stop and she said "he's not a tough client, she's vulnerable"
"I have a principle, take care of them like my own mother, you won't let your mother look like that, no one will"
In this section, the director arranged the role of a passerby, which I think is a bonus. He cleverly arranged a leading role, which naturally guides the mother's emotions. Another moment that touched me was when she explained to her dad what a cell phone meant to a child, and how she communicated with her dad after a fight. "If you can't control yourself, it's your fault"
Dad has a bad temper, but it is not deliberately magnified. After seeing his hard work for the family and his experiences, I can also understand him. Hands-on-hitting and rude communication with the older brother are undoubtedly unhelpful and very bad. But he can know that what he did was wrong, and he would regret it. He also knew that he had missed too much in the children's lives. He would look at his brother's picture album and want to know him. But a lot of things are missed and there is no way to make up for them. The moments that touched me included, after he learned that the car keys were taken by his sister and he blamed his brother, he tried to cover up his emotions, and in front of his young daughter, he just said, "It's not your fault" "I'm now again I can go to work"
The younger sister can be said to be the most gratifying character in the movie. She is very sensible. She can understand the hard work of her parents at a young age and try to share it for them. But this part of hiding the key still feels a bit unreasonable. It can only be blamed on the ignorance of children, or too sensible. My brother is in his rebellious adolescence, his parents are too tired to work and have no time to accompany him. He lacks the company and understanding he deserves. This is also the fuse of his rebelliousness. After his father was injured, his care and worry for his father also proved that he is a kind person who also loves his parents. There are still many details in the movie that touch me, and I will add them when I think of them. The plot of the whole film is more deliberate, I think it is the experience of the father being beaten at the end. Is there a reason for this arrangement is that the director wants to arouse the son's concern for the father? But I think the main reason is to express the social environment of exploiting people through the behavior of the boss after the accident. Both father and mother work very hard and are also very good people. The reason why they suffered like this is also mentioned in the movie. It was because of the force majeure financial crisis before. Maybe the director made this movie with more about society and the bottom. The thinking of the people, but I was completely immersed in the thinking of the relationship between people. I am not very interested in the propositions of society, the system, and the bottom, because I am used to changing only what I can change, and not blaming and worrying about what I cannot change. Because of this, I know I'm not the type of person who can change the world. Just changing myself requires a lot of effort, and changing the world is something I can't imagine.
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