flesh and spirit

Shaun 2022-03-22 09:01:52

The female protagonist Lily's family has domestic violence. The discordant family of origin is the breeding ground for mental disorders. The female protagonist relieves psychological pressure through self-harm.

Edward is an emotionally challenged lawyer on the verge of divorcing his wife, Tracy.

When did Lily fall in love with Edward? Perhaps it was when Edward analyzed that Lily was comforted physically because of her psychological pain, and thus self-mutilated, Lily began to think that if there is anyone else in this world who understands her, it must be Edward. It can be seen from Lily's slightly parted lips that Lily may have begun to fall. Then Edward told Lily to stop hurting herself, and when that painful time was over, Lily fell further. Lily's biting her lip is pretty sexy here. Go get some fresh air, don't need mom to pick you up, get off work early, take a walk home, and relax. Lily began to be healed.

But here comes the most crucial plot. Edward slaps Lily's ass with the palm of her hand, making Lily orgasm. Lily was completely lost. Lily lost the storage bag she had used since she was a child, but Edward became a new one. Edward became M and Lily became S. But Edward also has an emotional disorder. He has feelings for Lily, and it may later become love, but he is afraid of this feeling. Therefore, this SM only lasted for a while and then stopped, and even Lily was unmoved by all kinds of seductions to Edward.

Lily has tried to slap her own ass, but we know that even if it's ticklish, it's a different experience to tickling yourself and others. Lily couldn't get sexual satisfaction and went to Pete, but Pete was obviously a sex novice and didn't know Lily's orgasm at all. Even when Lily was lying on top of him and her butt was raised, he didn't understand what Lily meant. . What's even more pity is that Pete is a five-second man, and Lily can't get a little satisfaction from Pete. Of course, if Pete is also a master of sex, the story may be another development route, which is exactly what Eileen Chang wrote in Lust and Caution: The way to a woman's heart is through the vagina. If Wang Jiazhi's first sexual experience in Lust and Caution was Kuang Yumin, and he was satisfied, maybe it wouldn't be a tragic ending later.

The seductive Lily finally entered Edward's office again, but Edward was actually masturbating on Lily's raised naked ass instead of sex. If it weren't for this account of the movie, I would have thought that Edward had erectile dysfunction, but Edward could masturbate, at least the erection was no problem, that's why, because Edward has an affective disorder.

Why not say that Edward is not interested in Lily. Edward will deliberately make things difficult for Lily, and let her go to the trash can to find documents, but if they find them, they will not use them. It would be boring to persuade Lily to be a secretary here, and it would be overkill for Lily. Will be affected by meeting Lily and Pete on a date, embarrassing Lily with harsh words. Will notice Lily self-harm, and persuade her to stop self-harming. All in all, it showed that Edward was paying attention to Lily, not being mean.

There is a detail in the movie, Edward asked Lily to put the mousetrap, and then Edward released the guinea pig in the mousetrap, indicating that Edward was actually gentle and kind, and then contacted Edward's wife Tracy in the movie. Yelling, tore off Edward's windbreaker and stomped on it, but Edward only dared to hide. It can be seen that Edward may be the weak and victim of this relationship, and it also shows Edward's cowardice in a certain aspect, as Edward himself said: I am shy, but I work hard to overcome. I can't help thinking of Depp and Amber, but Depp is strong and lucky, and he has the support of his ex-girlfriend, and finally got the day he really wanted to know.

Edward cared about Lily, but his cowardice in his feelings and the obstacles formed by his frustration made Edward very entangled. He would make Lily take off her panties, but masturbated on Lily's completely naked and raised ass. I'm not interested in f**k you. Dare you to masturbate? And after you finished masturbating, and let Lily get out, well, how scared and tangled are you. And Lily could only fantasize about having sex with Edward in the bathroom. And Edward took out another letter of recommendation, not heartless, but afraid to accept this feeling.

Poor Lily looked for something new to stimulate her, and finally "awakened" on the eve of her wedding: wearing her wedding dress, she went to Edward who was doing sit-ups and shouted: I love you. Edward still didn't dare to accept this love, but facing Lily, Edward couldn't refuse, and only let Lily put her palms down on the table and her feet on the ground to wait for him.

Lily just waited for Edward for three days, no matter who came to persuade, even the media came to report.

Finally Edward saw in the newspaper: I seem to be suffering forever no matter what, and I don't know why, but I'm sure I'm no longer afraid of those sufferings, I'm experiencing unprecedented feelings, and I've found a way to be with me People who feel, experience, and love love the way I feel is right. I want him to know that I understand that he is also suffering at this time. And I want to love him.

This broke Edward's barriers, he went to pick up Lily, help her bathe, have sex with her, she told him her past and felt that she was back on earth and saved. He also began to open up to her, and the two began to live a life without shame.

Lily has changed from physical satisfaction to spiritual dependence. This is also a kind of love, but it is hard to imagine what Lily will do when she leaves Edward one day.

Edward cares about Lily, but does he really love Lily? He couldn't refuse Lily, he was moved by Lily, he had sex with Lily, he let Lily be saved. But all of this still doesn't seem to show that Edward has fallen in love with Lily. This may be the lack of expressiveness of the film, or the blank left by the script, which is up to everyone's taste.

As through the ages, perhaps everyone has their own interpretation of love. Just like the "Platonic" love proposed by ancient Greek scholars, it is believed that pure spiritual love between the same sex is true love. Of course, the same-sex ancient Greeks here are more inclined to adult men and young men. Homosexuality has been oppressed in the Christian world for a long time, and it was not until 1973 that the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality from the diagnostic criteria for mental illness. And love and sex are often inseparable. In ancient times, when our country talked about love, it was often accompanied by sadness, such as "The Story of the West Chamber", "Zhu Yingtai and Liang Shanbo" and so on. And Qiong Yao's love is invincible. With love, all difficulties can be overcome and all dreams can be realized.

Love, in the end what is love, maybe the answer in everyone's heart is different.

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Secretary quotes

  • [Lee talks to Mr. Grey as he kisses her naked body]

    Lee: Where did you go to high school? What was your mother like? What was her name? What did it say under your senior yearbook? Who was your first love? When did your heart first get broken? Where were you born?

    E. Edward Grey: [Mr. Grey brings his lips up to hers before kissing her] Des Moines, Iowa.

  • [last lines]

    Lee: [narrating] All our activities melted into an everyday sort of life until we looked like any other couple you would see.

    E. Edward Grey: [Mr. Grey teaches Lee how to make a bed] Turn that over, yes. Just pull it tight. Now, these pillows like to be stacked. Largest to smallest.

    Lee: [narrating] We had a June wedding, by ourselves at the Justice of the Peace.

    Lee: [narrating, as we see the two make love outside] Then, we honeymooned in the mountains. We only had the weekend because Edward had to get back to work.