A movie that I haven't watched all the time, when I was looking for a movie to watch tonight, I remembered it. Based on the true story of Mark O'Brien. Mark has suffered from polio since his birth, and is conscious but unable to move. He was sensitive, a poet and a journalist. He seeks love, but is rejected. A very special opportunity gave him the opportunity to seek sexual treatment. He meets Charol, the therapist, and eventually his girlfriend, who is with him. At the age of 49, he passed away. At the funeral, three women who were very important to him came to attend. His girlfriend read his favorite poem to Charol. There's a lot of nudity in the film, and it's outspoken about sex, but it doesn't feel erotic in the slightest, it just feels good. How beautiful it was, people coming out of their heads and being together very, very gently, being together, sharing, exploring. Like morning dew gently rolling down your arm. You can't see the heaviness in the film, it's like a light poem, flowing with the breeze like the sunshine in early summer. Also, it's humorous. Lovely priest, sitting in church, listening to a congregation keep telling him about sexual experiences. The priest said, I don't know why people always associate sex with God, it's so irrelevant! People even shouted at the climax: "Oh, buy cake!" But the priest was really loving, he did not push Mark away rigidly, but accompanied Mark through his exploration journey, just like a To good friends. At one point, Mark felt hurt and turned to the priest for help. The priest rushed to him, ready to give him a solemn speech, saw Mark who was in good shape, the priest changed his mind, he said that my speech was very short, it was about love, and he said, "Love is a journey That's my talk, I said, it's short." It talks about Mark's ideas about sex, guilt, shame, fear, and so on, just like each of us... well, just like me. He tries to be successful, to be good, to do well, and then he reads, studies, and gets confused. And Xia Ruoer is a professional sex therapist, very professional, not only psychological, but also physiological. In their quest, intimacy eventually arises between two strangers. It's really beautiful. You look at the intimacy, their relationship, like gently holding a flower and breathing its fragrance carefully. When I watch a movie, I have a lot of inner touches. With a completely different perception about sex, for the first time in my life, it feels good. Not necessarily intercourse, not necessarily orgasm, not necessarily ejaculation, not necessarily procreation, you just get along quietly, with no gaps, totally together, not even defining what it is, not trying to develop it into relationship, trying to catch something. Just like in the Garden of Eden, only good. Any words are superfluous. Interesting, isn't it? Most healthy people use their minds to get along with others. And Mark couldn't move his whole body, but he was using his body to feel each other. The poem that Mark wrote to Charlene is called "A Love Poem for Anyone." Let me stroke you with words 'cause my hands are as limp as empty gloves Let my words run across your hair, stroke your back and scratch your stomach 'cause my hands like bricks don't care My heart is also determined not to fulfill my deepest desire Let my words enter your heart Let them hold the torches high Please accept them into your body and mind My words can gently caress the depths of your heart
2015/4/7
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