Favorite movie so far. The failure of this marriage made them both grow up with each other. Fortunately, they did not miss each other. It is said that love is to see each other's advantages, and a good marriage is to tolerate shortcomings. But the marriage problem reflected in this film is obviously not like this. On the contrary, it is precisely because of each other's too much tolerance and suppressed emotions that the problem is further intensified. In the end, the reason why they fell in love with each other again was not just because they relived their old dreams, but because both of them had changed. The male protagonist is no longer arrogant and confronts mediocrity, and the female protagonist no longer makes herself pitiful like an undignified beggar in her relationship and becomes more independent and confident. This can be reflected in the female protagonist's later "desire dissatisfaction". She can't enjoy sex because she thinks that sex is to satisfy the other party, and she is not happy with it. It can be seen that even a very positive public figure like Bai Yansong will say some superficial things that cannot stand scrutiny. A good marriage needs tolerance. This is actually a plausible nonsense. Any long-term relationship, family love Friendship, colleagues, superiors and subordinates, teacher-student relationships, etc., all need to tolerate shortcomings. That being the case, the sentence itself doesn't make any sense. And this kind of nonsense, I also realized it after watching this movie. A truly beautiful marriage must be owned by two people who are mature and rational enough, have the ability to love and take responsibility.
View more about Scenes from a Marriage reviews
