I watched the movie "Vase" recently. Although it talks about gender equality and extramarital affairs, the overall plot of the story is very relaxed and pleasant. The film is about France in 1977, Robert is a very strict factory owner, he is also a tyrant at home. As a result, the workers went on strike, and Robert went out to recuperate temporarily because he was not feeling well. Susan, the wife of a vase at home, rose to the top to restore stability to the factory. As a result, Robert came back and hoped to regain the ownership of the factory. Wife Susan ended up losing because her daughter was holding back, but she went out to run for parliament again and won. 1. Vase, no. Before Susan was publicly claimed by her husband Robert that she was a vase, and told her not to enter the kitchen, because the kitchen is the place of the maid. Don't go to a bar because it's not for her either. Later, the factory was clearly turned by his wife, and she did not let her go. Even though the factory was run by her father and it was a gift from her dowry back then, but now she has absolutely no say. Until the last wife was about to be elected as a member of parliament, her husband Robert's attitude changed immediately. Start to look at your wife with new eyes, and stop calling your wife a vase. Sure enough, the foundation of equality between men and women is women's economic independence and spiritual independence. And people with power are respected by everyone, male or female. People often mislead women, you don't have to work very hard, you don't have to climb up, you just need to take good care of your family. But if the other party has a conscience, it is okay to take good care of the family. If the other party has no conscience, it is very likely that the three happy events in his life that he expects are promotion to become rich and his wife to die. And do you feel at ease when you put the initiative in your own life in the hands of the other party? So I suggest that women don't care what the society says, what they say is not good, please see how everyone does it, especially how men do it. Please climb as high as you can to the top of power and economy. The scenery from high places is indeed better and more charming. You'll also be more respected and have more say in the family, and loved ones can be snobbish too. 2. Be gentle. When Susan drafted her speech before she took office, she did not call her "Messieurs", she used "Mes amis" instead. Her husband's secretary is a mistress. Susan probably knew about it, but he didn't go and speak ill of the secretary. Instead, I appreciate the advantages of the secretary and try to reuse the secretary as much as possible. In the end the secretary chose to be Susan's secretary instead of her husband's secretary. The toughest thing in the world can't play the softest thing - water. The Tao Te Ching says that nothing in the world is soft and weaker than water, and nothing can be overcome by attacking the strong, and there is no way to change it. . The weak beat the strong, the soft beat the rigid, the world does not know it, and it cannot be done. Therefore, it is suggested that when dealing with people, whether male or female, be gentle and humble. Be gentle, but have your own principles. From the point of view of war, we don't want to win the battle locally, we want the overall victory. So there is no need to fight for the benefits of words, just get real benefits. 3. Be confident. Like Susan said about herself, she didn't say "I'm not a mere woman", she changed it into "yes, I'm a woman". I think we can all learn from Susan's magnanimous and confident attitude. Many people feel that women, especially, feel that they are not capable, but there is often a great possibility that they have not fully exercised their abilities. So there is no need to rush to deny yourself, especially in language, language is magical. Just do everything you handle seriously, and feel your growth in the process, without degrading yourself, and at the same time not looking too high on yourself.
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