A person who has experienced love, lovelorn, marriage and divorce will be more content and reliable than a person who has never been in love, married or divorced.
Young girls, who have never experienced any twists or turns, talk about emotional humanity under the umbrella of "feminism", and are paranoid about liberating women's sexual desires and responsibilities. The childishness behind many comments makes people laugh or cry.
A person who loses rational restraint will inevitably result in indulgence and debauchery; a person in a marriage who loses rational restraint will inevitably betray and smash the happiness he possesses.
A person who has experienced passion and loneliness and depression does not have such high erotic expectations for an erotic drama. Most boys will be exposed to various levels of pornography very early, especially in countries and regions where there is no grading system, whether it is in the form of language, text, or works, or the intuitive visual impact in the form of pictures and images, especially In an environment where piracy is prevalent and the Internet is developed, most viewers have seen it before. Therefore, the requirements for erotica's physiological response are higher and higher. Therefore, to evaluate this drama is to use the brain instead of the lower body, it is the first thing to be clear, even if you still want to see large-scale film and television works, you are only looking forward to a higher level and a higher level.
Then the focus is on the discussion of sexuality in married life, the sexual relationship between husband and wife, the sexual relationship outside marriage, the sexual relationship in the mind and the body.
First of all, in the sexual relationship between husband and wife, various surveys and studies have shown that ordinary and unsatisfactory are the majority. Emotional and visual habits and fatigue, trivial details and pressures of life, gradual changes in age and physical function, etc., will lead to a gradual downward trend in the quality and satisfaction of sexual life after marriage. 5 years, 8 years, 10 years, more than ten or twenty years. . . Of course, men and women have different perceptions and adaptations to this trend, which requires mutual understanding, emotional bonds and joint efforts to understand and balance in order to maintain a long-term relationship. Desire to dissatisfaction, but do not want to restraint, that of course means betrayal, deceit, selfishness, conflict, until exposure and separation.
Infidelity and infidelity, that is, extra-marital sexual relations, are almost never able to maintain a state of symbiosis and coexistence with marriage under the monogamous moral system. It will be destroyed sooner or later. , The entanglement, pain and sorrow behind are all self-inflicted. The reason why monogamy is called a moral system is to fill the vague gap between power interference and "lawlessness" in response to the "public order and good customs" in modern law. There is always a limit to freedom in reality.
There are many contradictions in the heroine of the story. The heroine has a good family background and educational background, and the psychology major should be professional, unique and considerate. It is youth and ignorance, and it is hard to imagine that at the same time, it can educate people in the palace of academies and understand rationality; if it is open and free in the West, it must not be the mainstream and representative of faith. After experiencing setbacks in love and relationship, yearning for a stable husband and child, and a life of peace with a small wealth, it is human nature and logic, but before breastfeeding, sperm is on the brain, loneliness is unbearable, and sexual fantasies can be lyrical in a diary. Understand, but such private memories and psychological descriptions, as a psychologist, can be easily accessed and seen by her husband without any defense. It is really the greatest truth lost for the sake of dramatic conflict. Some people say that husbands should not peek at the diary, it depends on the intimate tacit understanding of the relationship between the two. You can open your partner's mobile phone and computer at any time and any space where the two live. No secrets are the trust and commitment of a hot lover. reflect. But the text that records your sex with your ex-boyfriend is so private, anyone will keep an eye on it and keep a private space, which is also the protection of all the people you love and those who love you. The heroine should not understand.
The character of the heroine's husband and the male counterpart can be regarded as real. Good family background, educational experience, independent self-confidence and self-discipline of the elite, a logical middle-class living standard and a step-by-step work and family life. After falling in love, getting married and having children, focusing on starting a business and making money, it is completely normal to relax and ignore the natural relationship between the sexes. He still loves and relies on his wife and children, but he is less concerned and sensitive. This person is supposed to be a serious man. In terms of sexuality, he has neither heavy-handed beliefs, etc., nor additional experience and indulgence. The screenwriter just wants to set an almost perfect object in the dramatic conflict, and then Let him be stimulated, to be angry, to strive for, to change, to lose, to be sad, to be angry, to feel the temptation in the midst of severe defeat and loneliness and helplessness, to hesitate and resist on the verge of giving up and betrayal. If a male audience can't understand and respect such a real person, it is mostly stubborn and hypocritical. And female audiences should feel and learn to understand the feelings of the opposite sex more. In terms of the details of understanding men, it should be said that the screenwriter of this play still has a certain understanding, the allegro and actors in the gym and bathhouse. The expression and behavior of the female screenwriters are all in place. Whether the female screenwriters have the original intention of understanding or ridicule, it can be regarded as a relatively real expression of psychological activities. The various reactions to his wife's spiritual infidelity, the indulgence and jealousy on the sexual party, the ambiguous entanglement with the female boss, and the balance of emphasis on family and career, the shaping of this role is generally very real and successful. The husband after reconciliation is not a dog licker. The wall of trust has collapsed. The huge emotional and moral conflict has planted the poison of suspicion and the inducement of escape and derailment. No one is perfect, even perfect people experience life. It will be devastated and patched up. Instead of blaming him, help him and grow with him.
The character of the heroine's ex-boyfriend and male partner 2 can also stand up. A good family background and resources carry the trauma of his father's love in his youth, which affects his independent personality, cynical indulgence charm and unstable emotions. The screenwriter gives the character set artistic charm and prodigal son uninhibited, blessing to develop a good career and The wealthy living conditions, especially the handsome appearance, have made women irresistible, and the sexual characteristics are the unforgettable and unforgettable focus of the women they interact with. This is the prerogative of female screenwriters and directors, and of course they decide what to cook on their own territory. It is also a popular tyranny routine in a specific literature, with obvious advantages and defects, but it is irresistible and difficult to extricate. The characters are invested in love, persistent in their feelings, young and frivolous and do not know how to cherish them. When the heroine needs them most, they make mistakes that are common in literary works. Whether it's legitimate or evil tricks, you want to save, snatch what originally belonged to you. But in the end, based on love and understanding, after getting a clear answer, he accepted it calmly, and even finally treated frankly with the heroine's husband, helping the heroine and husband to get back together. This role is also logical, and such a good character is also the foreshadowing of the screenwriter's desire to reverse, giving a dissatisfied woman a "reasonable" excuse for an extramarital affair, a good spare tire must be loyal and unconditional accept.
Almost all the comments will agree that the female protagonist's best friend's thorough sobriety seems to be a combination of the voice and human nature of a third-party social science and ethics textbook. She and the female protagonist have almost the same educational background and youth experience except for their skin color, but they have not yet found a suitable The object of stable marriage. Every time the heroine has thoughts and entanglements of cheating and infidelity, she will use the reasonable and correct voice of ordinary people to persuade and advise. Of course, the entangled character and drama development of the heroine require most of the heroines to perfunctory and disobey. Several other female supporting roles have their own roles, but they all seem to be more decisive than the heroine. No matter right or wrong, even in the face of the same marital crisis and predicament, they all have their own choices. Only the heroine is the most tangled and rebellious. desire stronger). But for the avant-garde method of the couple who led them to the sex party to solve the sexual fatigue between husband and wife, the heroine's heart returned to tradition and holiness. Especially the neighbors and acquaintances, and the N-level multi-course experience before marriage seems to be able to justify it with the traditional single freedom. But the final reversal once again formed the contradiction between inner tradition and non-tradition. That is, cheating needs to be graded, and promiscuity needs to be divided.
There have always been debates and definitions of different boundaries between spiritual infidelity and physical infidelity. Consciously recall fantasies and enjoy the feeling of spiritual infidelity. Although the physical infidelity has not stepped out, the state of detachment and the impact on the family are obvious. Lei Chi’s step can only be mastered randomly by himself, who knows the extent and duration. The whole process of the play is actually to tell everyone that even if you have experienced entanglement and struggle, you have affected and hurt your family, business, lover, etc., and after making great efforts alone and together, you can still be derailed by spiritual derailment. Bring to the derailment of the present. . . Does the screenwriter really think so? Is this their original intention and orientation?
The most terrifying thing is the staggering ending at the end of the show, the practice in reality. Once upon a time, marriage was sacred, sex was discreet, and family was the only one. People have stepped out of hierarchical slavery, feudal constraints, and traditional confinement. Divorce is no longer a forbidden place of shame, and gender discrimination is no longer hidden. However, the banner of political correctness of minority groups and minority consciousness is raised higher and farther, and not only is it expressed to the world, but it is arrogant and regarded as a standard. Standing on the moral high ground, opposition is slag, swarming up and stepping on your feet. . . The show doesn't describe the child's feelings and influences with much ink. Every time the child asks "where did dad go", "when did dad come", "what's wrong with dad", etc., the heroine will snort and cry and feel distressed. I will also regret and pity, but what should I do next? The family reality that interrupted the memory of Chunmeng did not stop the sexual temptation. Even the moment when the husband took the child away, the fear and regret of the loss were limited to 85% of the imprisonment. , that 15% sexual satisfaction has become an eternal dream and a time bomb. This kind of original family tragedy, which is emphasized in most perverted murder and criminal investigation works, clearly tells people how the parents of these families are ignored in this drama.
This is a description of the normal experience of life and people's emotional process. If there is no final reversal, it will be accepted and recognized by most people, but it will be dubbed the traditional chicken soup, accept the depression and ordinaryness of fate, Destroy your inner passion and individual pursuit. . . In addition, the result of this smashing of the three views is unconventional and the value is upgraded, which not only won the support of a small number of heterogeneous, but also caused more debates and scolding traffic.
In recent years, film and television dramas have added more reversals and abuse, in order to innovate and break through and attract attention, the protagonist's halo is not there, good people are tortured and killed, and they are killed quickly, some can't live for half an episode, and the bad guys are constantly struggling , but it has a long life and a long life. The complex interpretation of human nature requires the continuous victory and resurrection of the bad guys. The ending of the story is no longer perfect and reunion, because no one knows whether it can continue the filming. More and more open endings are left to the audience, the market, and the society, no matter what the values and orientation, whether true or false, have nothing to do with the screenwriter and director, but get deep and broad evaluations. There is always someone who feels it or wants to understand it. It's impossible to say right or wrong, but its influence and trend are like this, step by step, little by little, into the life and consciousness of young people and middle-aged people. With a lot of resources invested in it, how many people can be sensible, self-control, tolerant, self-cultivating, and be kind to others? . . .
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