I just started watching this movie for no purpose but to know Nicole she was just the trigger for me to watch this movie and started watching it
In the first ten minutes, I just thought the heroine was so strange because I haven't played the role of bereavement yet or I didn't understand the feeling, so almost half of them were thinking: This woman is so unreasonable why she has to force her child's clothes For the pregnant sister (my sister if I remember correctly) Why do you have to make the atmosphere stiff and unpleasant when you are with other people, and you regret your innocence and make you feel like someone else owes you that your son is dead? Are you going to make it difficult for everyone? Just stay by yourself.
I was really ruthless at the beginning, but when she went to find the murderer, I started to slowly find the point of entry, and my attitude began to change slowly, and I wanted to understand more deeply.
At first I thought she was stalking the murderer because she looked like her child. I also thought that her child was only four years old.
When they were sitting on the park bench, the murderer apologized and I had a mixed feeling that he was the murderer! I don't understand why the heroine wants to bump into her child's murderer like she feels like her son. I don't understand why the murderer bumped into someone and didn't do anything. Shouldn't you hate him? But your motherly eyes?
In the middle, she and her husband quarreled with their mother because of their lost son, quarreled with their sister, and were unhappy with strangers. People just don’t get angry with the accumulated emotions of losing their children.)
Comics are rabbit holes and parallel universes seem to be very common now. Maybe it was a relatively new concept in 2010 movies.
Now in 2021, I think I understand this film from an angle that people always have to reconcile with themselves
It's not reconciliation with others, it's reconciliation with yourself. The heroine is communicating with the murderer. In my opinion, it is also the heroine and the murderer's redemption for themselves. It will affect him for the rest of his life, and the other party, as a parent, will feel that he has not fulfilled his responsibility to protect the child.
In the end, both the heroine and the hero forgave the murderer. The hero also confirmed to the heroine that the murderer knew that we didn't blame him. It could be seen that they only had a backlog of emotions in their hearts to release their malice to outsiders, but that was not the intention.
When she watched the murderer still live a forward-looking life to attend a friend's wedding, she cried for the first time and broke out all the emotions.
I think she knew she should look forward too
At this time, the male protagonist has also let himself out of the past through a different method. The male and female protagonists have returned home and finally they are like normal old couples. There is no unpleasantness of being awkward and contradicting each other before.
Both of them use different ways to get themselves out of the pain of the past, so that the past, the past and the future can come. Only by reconciling with oneself can people grasp the present and move towards the future.
I really like how the hostess's mother said in it how to get out of the pain of losing a loved one: it's not that we forget how sad it is, but that we become strong enough to bear its weight, when it weighs us down, one day it's like a pocket There's a brick in it" We forget it from time to time but it's no longer an obstacle to our future.
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