Parents are to children, teachers are to students, and the strong are to the weak in all social relationships, so they hope that the other person can live the life they want, and people in this world cannot be defined at all.
How can one person fully understand another person?
Mom doesn't understand why my sister committed suicide, and why my uncle leaves a good university professor and doesn't come to repair the ship...
One may understand another
The uncle knows her sister's repression and her emotional needs, and is willing to help her sister's daughter become a free person, but is afraid that he will ruin the life of a talented girl?
Gifted is both a gift and a stress.
Frank knew about Mary's talent but hoped that she would have a happy childhood as an "ordinary person". He hoped that this talent would not depress her. Under the protection of Frank, Mary was indeed trying to integrate into the life of a so-called ordinary person. Although she was good at mathematics, I will also see the zoo made by my classmates is great! And in order to protect the classmates, they will bravely compare themselves with their older children (of course, hitting people is wrong) and get happiness from it.
Grandma's appearance broke this balance. Grandma knew that Mary might have more talent than her daughter. She appeared and wanted to take Mary away and continue to control her daughter.
Custody lawsuit begins.
Grandma's lawyer argued that my uncle was not a qualified guardian from the perspective of social significance. Of course, from an emotional point of view, my uncle worked hard to provide Mary with positive and complete emotional needs, but material conditions were not healthy in the popular sense.
Although from the point of view of us watching the movie, these are all p! We just want emotional needs! The uncle's lawyer also demonstrated from an emotional point of view and the case of her daughter's suicide that my grandma was not a qualified guardian, but my grandma didn't care, she didn't come for her granddaughter, but just because she was a gifted girl.
For the audience and everyone, we prefer pure emotions rather than mixed interests. Grandma can give children better conditions and education, but emotional needs cannot be met, and it seems like a full use.
Mary knew that and said that line - he wanted me before he knew I was smart.
This is also the child's most instinctive and pure approval, but she said no, and ultimately judged that both parties were unqualified, and to find a good-looking foster family, it seems like this, but the movie is destined to not be like this, foster family It was a scam. Grandma used her financial power to control Mary to calculate and study.
Fortunately, my uncle appeared like a hero and rescued Mary and provided enough weight for my grandma to give up. My sister's research results will not be published until her mother's death. My sister's suicide is a punishment for her to relieve her grandma, but this punishment Not enough, punish a person with what they care about most.
The results of the research - really hit the nail on the head.
My grandmother finally let Mary go to continue her research. Although she also cried bitterly while looking at her daughter's manuscript, she still chose to do research.
And Mary finally returned to her uncle's warm embrace.
I really like the end of the film. Mary went to MIT to attend a class, and her uncle asked her if she was having fun? Mary said Cool! It's different from normal school.
In the next shot, she went back to her "ordinary" kindergarten and had fun with her classmates.
She is a lucky child who can experience different happiness, one is brought by her own talent, and the other is the happiness of so-called ordinary people.
Whatever happens in the future, as long as the child is happy at the moment.
Frank, don't be afraid to ruin Mary's life.
Sometimes I think smart people are good. They can have a life worth living in the worldly sense, or they can choose the life of ordinary people. The choice seems to be more than ordinary people. For example, the character of the uncle in the film, a Boston A university professor chooses to live in Florida as a temporary ship repairer, but a less intelligent person seems to have a lot less choice to do what he can do instead of what he wants to do.
But smart people are very tiring. For example, my sister, a math genius is forced to do math forever. Although she is doing big things that can make all mankind progress, ordinary happiness is so difficult for her, she can't like it with herself. of people dating, did not go skiing...
The world is also fair, that is, people can only live once a day. I want to eat hamburgers today, but I ordered hot pot for a dinner party. I envy the people who eat hamburgers in hamburger restaurants, but maybe the people who eat hamburgers want to eat hot pot?
My grandma thinks this way, I can see that my grandma is also a smart person in the film. However, the choice of marriage, in the end, I had to rely on my daughter. Forced by my mother to do research, and finally committed suicide to free myself from punishing my mother, and handed my daughter to my uncle, hoping that my daughter can live a happy life as an ordinary person that she has never experienced. From a certain point of view, grandma and sister are just the right choice. After taking a different path, I feel that the other path will make me happier...
People are always like this, envious of the choices they have not chosen, and always wonder if another choice would be better?
But there is no answer in life, never define others, live your own life, and respect everyone's every choice.
Two things I like about the film, one is that Frank quarreled with Mary, saying that Mary had let her life have no privacy, and finally apologized and asked Mary if he was serious?
Frank asked Mary that she didn't buy a piano last week. Is it true that Mary said he was the worst uncle and wanted him to die?
This communication skill and example are really amazing, and Mary is sad that her father doesn't care if she thinks she is an unexpected child, her uncle took her to the delivery room to see the joy of birth, even if life is going on later, a child is born Time must be expected, which is good.
This clip healed Mary and healed me watching the movie, I hope we all like ourselves a little more~
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