When I was in my 20s, I refused to watch movies like Soul Breaking Blue Bridge, for fear that I would not be able to bear the moral judgment.
Once in my poor aesthetics, the male lead was thin and even old-fashioned, and the female lead was too plump and rustic, but these are the two who have long since fallen in love with people who love to fly to the flames.
I believe in the tacit understanding and tacit understanding between men and women.
When I was in my 30s, I watched this film for the first time, and I had more recognition and understanding of the kindness and mutual compassion of the male and female protagonists.
The male protagonist understands the female protagonist's responsibility to the family and her husband and cannot bear to hurt him, so he did not take the initiative to express his love, make a promise, and propose to take the female protagonist away at the end of the fourth day. Therefore, this also led to the continuous ridicule and torture of the heroine against him.
This kind of silence of the man is also a kind of unbearable harm to the heroine. I can't bear to let the heroine face the pain and remorse of possible betrayal and tearing.
The heroine is very clear about his infatuation with Robert, and also knows the truth of marriage and life, so he chose to let go, even though she will be entangled in a kind of longing and concern for the rest of her life.
The heroine's husband is a tolerant and generous man, and I guess he has noticed a clue before. Whether it was the view of his wife and Robert on the street in the heavy rain, he bought the wrong thing, or what he said to his wife before his death: I love you, I know you have your dreams...
I think what he didn't say was: thank you for this family and the children, because we you gave up your dreams, this is probably what he didn't say. Perhaps he also faintly felt that he had delayed his wife's dreams and ideals. Most importantly, he saw his wife's sacrifice and forbearance towards the family.
Such three people, precisely because they have the truest love and understanding for each other, have such a story that can be remembered.
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