Don't get better, just see yourself

Camila 2022-03-23 09:02:31

In the last scene of the movie, Fred Rogers smiled and walked out of the prop door in front of the camera. After looking at the monitor, I walked to the piano alone, and started to play the low key as the people pulled out and the lights dimmed. This is the venting method he said before.

The first time Lloyd Vogel met Rogers, he said, "You're Fred, and here's your character, Mister Rogers." Obviously in his preset, Rogers in front of the camera is not Fred in reality. But Rogers sidestepped the question, turning the conversation to Vogel's face injury. Obviously he didn't want to say it.

Since the plot has been focused on Vogel, the audience doesn't know Rogers. Vogel's irritability, impulsiveness, annoyance, remorse, and all kinds of psychological activities are shown in detail in front of the audience, but Rogers, the whole film does not even have a scene of himself alone, his calmness, generosity, elegance, tranquility, all are just in the In front of people, and what he looks like in private, we don't know. So I think the director's intention in arranging the final scene is to tell the audience that he is also a person.

When it comes to Vogel, the hatred for his father is just a show, his biggest problem is closing the door. During dinner with Rogers, he said he was broken. This is his self-perception, and that's the problem, if you think you're bad, you're bound to be that bad self. Rogers' persuasion is actually just letting him say his thoughts bit by bit. Listening to yourself speaking your thoughts is very different from just thinking about it in your mind. Then you will know what you should do better.

For a father who abandons his wife and children, he can choose not to forgive, but he must let go of his hatred. Because the original unforgiveness is your attitude towards him, but with hatred in your heart, it will drag down your life. Vogel's tearful confession to his wife is cowardice, on the contrary, this is real strength. Did Vogel really forgive his father? not necessarily. But he can talk to him. Not because he can face his father, but because he can face himself. This is also what Rogers said, people are always growing.

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  • Jaiden 2022-03-26 09:01:09

    I watched Mr. Rogers' documentary before, and thought this would be very similar, but it turned out to be surprisingly good! I was so moved, I cried a lot.

  • Name 2022-04-24 07:01:16

    Hanks' role this time is really too heavy with the halo of the Virgin, but it is really well played, so this time I don't hate this forced reconciliation story. Different from the neat Chong Ao films in the past, this one is quite innovative in the form of narration. In fact, Hanks is more of a threading role, not only the protagonist but not the protagonist, thanks to the strong personal charm and actors of the prototype. His acting skills really touched me a little bit. However, as we all know, it is easier said than done to talk about reconciliation and forgiveness. Since the rare movie has brought me a short-lived and beautiful fairy tale that I am willing to believe, this bubble can float as long as it can, please don't burst it for the time being.

A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood quotes

  • Lloyd Vogel: Listen, I realize I need to deal with my feelings. When I'm scared, which I was in the hospital, and I have been for a long time, I get really angry. I know it's a way of saying, "I can't deal with this. Get away from me." But that's not what I want. It's actually the opposite of what I want.

  • Fred Rogers: [reading a list of names during his evening prayers] Cecilia Sherman, Colby Dickerson, Justin Cook, Rebecca Anito, Lloyd Vogel, Andrea Vogel, Gavin Vogel, Jerry Vogel. Thank you, God.