There was a discussion in the goose group: "Have you experienced sexual harassment?", and 99% of the answers were: experienced.
The play discusses the abuse of women by men in power. In fact, sexual harassment doesn’t just come from men in power, it can come from all men, everyone.
When stories of "sexual assault" appear, passers-by are also looking for a "perfect victim" while criticizing the sexual assault. Once they realize that the victim is not perfect, they seize this point to turn the tide and criticize the "imperfection". Just like some people in the barrage empathize with Mitch, "Getting a promotion is an exchange of interests", "Why not refuse it?",, When I usually see social news, I often see some men refuting, "Who told you not to Will refuse, deserve it."
There are many reasons for not rejecting, some external reasons, such as in the play, the man is in power and the victim is in a vulnerable position; or many people cannot accurately judge that they have been sexually harassed or sexually assaulted at the first time. After all, most people do not presume that the men they come into contact with are potential sexual assaults, and they are always alert and prepared. However, more and more social events are forcing women to have this sense of precaution. After all, men also admit this when they are self-respecting for the group - "men are born like this".
In fact, apart from some external reasons, when most women are touched by a foreign and unfamiliar touch (sexual harassment), their first reaction is: strangeness, confusion, surprise, embarrassment, fear rather than counterattack. It's like the female victim in the show didn't know when she described being molested by Mitch, but in retrospect it was disgusting.
Why not refuse? In fact, I don't know why, I have encountered it before, and I am also confused. This embarrassment is not pain, it can make people react immediately and fight back. Many times, many people just let it happen, if the pain will gradually dissipate, and this kind of discomfort, embarrassment and embarrassment will only ferment into waves of nausea, accompanied by a lifetime, some people can face it, some people live in the shadows in.
Others are not qualified to question the victim's "why didn't you refuse", because for the victim, speaking out is already a kind of courage.
However, not rejecting does not mean agreeing!
Hope ordinary and arrogant and arrogant people understand this.
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