Don't be the perfect parent

Janie 2022-04-11 09:01:07

The animated film "Future of the Future" is amazing.

He has two lines, one is the growth of the little boy, and the other is the growth of the parents.

Super detailed, super real, but super imaginative.

Let's talk about this line first. After the second child was born in the future, the parents took care of the second child with all their might, the eldest's call was ignored, the eldest's needs were compressed, the eldest could not deal with this dissatisfaction, and his emotions became hostile to the younger sister's future. This is also the most common mental state of the eldest after having a second child and a situation that commonly occurs at home. Adults will always require and limit the status of the previous boss on the grounds that the little ones are smaller, need more care and be more careful, because the little ones need more care and take up more of their father and mother. satisfy.

However, the magic is the growth of the boss, and every time he vents out of the classics, there is a new insight. From the surreal plot, he grew up and met his future future, his former great-grandfather, and his childhood mother. After all this, and back to the show, he has grown a lot. However, in real life, it is difficult to have a corresponding structure corresponding to this part. In reality, it is much harder to grow. If the parents don't grow up and there is no surreal plot to help the child, the child's psychological imbalance will exist for a lifetime.

Speaking of parents growing up.

My father is an architectural designer. He has been a freelancer since his second child was born, taking on the responsibility of taking care of the future. This man wasn't like this from the beginning. At the beginning of the movie, my mother complained mercilessly: I know that you and the surrounding aunts said that you are taking care of your children at home, and you seem to be very competent and great, but in fact, this is not the case, only a little bit after the birth of the future. That is to say, this is not the case after the old man was born. Mom continued: I hope you don't depend on me for everything as before.

This is the status quo of many new mothers, and the family model of widowed parenting is also very common.

Fortunately, the father in the play is no longer like that. Although he still overturned his job, nursed the baby crying, and kept cleaning up at home, he was growing up.

At the end, when the family was about to travel, my mother said: You are a lot gentler now. Before, you were always angry at work. And my father also said that my mother is not what she used to be, but she is still a little far from a good mother. And my mother is very satisfied and said that as long as it is not the worst, it will be fine. Marriage seems to be like this, slowly, everyone grows up a little bit, and it becomes a little better. It can give a little energy to many young couples who are entangled and love and hate: everyone will grow up, and maybe the future will be harmonious.

Such and such, so good.

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Extended Reading

Mirai quotes

  • Father: This is your baby sister, Kun.

    Kun: Sister?

    Mother: Isn't she precious?

    Kun: [gasping in amazement] She is.

    [pokes his finger against her delicate hand]

    Mother: You have to be gentle with her.

    Kun: [gently takes hold of the baby's hand; she opens her eyes]

    Father: She's awake. I think she's staring at you, Kun.

    Mother: Come on, her eyes can't even focus yet.

    Father: Well she sure looks like she's staring to me.

    Mother: You must always be nice to her, okay?

    Kun: Okay.

    Mother: And you have to protect her no matter what.

    Kun: Yeah.

    Mother: Always.

  • Mirai: You did it again. You tried to hit me with your bullet train even after Mom told you not to.

    Kun: But it wasn't a bullet train!

    Mirai: You aren't supposed to use a bullet train to hit people.

    Kun: It was a Super Azusa.

    Mirai: [angrily] I don't care what kind it was!

    [scoffs]

    Mirai: And why can't you be a little nicer to Mom?

    Kun: I don't know, I just can't.

    Mirai: It's her one day off from work. She doesn't get many and she has to spend it fighting with you. Come on, try.

    Kun: [sniffling] I know... I'm not cute.

    Mirai: Huh?

    Kun: [crying, wipes tear from his eye] Both Baby Mirai and Yukio are really cute. Not me. I know I'm not that cute anymore.

    [continues sobbing]

    Mirai: Oh come on, that's not true. You're very cute!

    Kun: [walking away]

    Mirai: You're the cutest! Adorable!

    Kun: [crying harder; runs away]