In critical moments, love is sacrifice

Kacie 2022-03-22 09:02:08

When I expected Jane to give up on running away with Tom, I joked that she would give up on love or she wouldn't be a great woman. Of course, this is just a joke, because her greatness is because she wrote six famous novels such as "Pride and Prejudice", not because she gave up her love for some moral reason, nor because she kept chastity for a lifetime." Spencer".

One scene in the movie impressed me very much. Jane said goodbye to Tom, who was going to run away with her, and then returned to her home. A friend asked her, what happened? She answered calmly, nothing. (nothing happened) The moving effect of this sentence is very strong, at least I think so. After experiencing the earth-shaking changes and emotional torment, in the end, there are only two words that can be expressed. have what? ! Yes, nothing. Because in the eyes of others you can't see anything at all, so there can only be "nothing".

It's like Tori Amos sings in silent all these years, finally there's nothing left.

And then it's just one more casualty.

It makes me feel as if at critical moments, love is sacrificed, it is like a useless flashy luxury to play, admire and show off when comfortable, and at critical moments, for family affection, sacrifice it! For friendship, sacrifice it! For the sake of the country, it is even more necessary to sacrifice it!

Nothing is born, except responsibility. There is a saying: When a person comes to the world, his other half, another person, also comes to the world and waits for him. This is the dream of an idiot.

What is precious is that it was after this sweet and later painful choice that Jane grew up and matured, she wrote Pride and Prejudice, and she could also say to her mother in the kitchen, I was wrong , I think I don't understand you enough.

Maybe Tom is right, great words cannot be written without some experience and experience. But Tom is a poor boy with a bright appearance who lives on his uncle, so what is his so-called experience? Is it poverty and suffering? Is it because she hopes that Jane will experience the so-called scorching world without the care of a happy little family?

When watching the film, I also joked that a smart woman always grows up by borrowing a man.
In the morning, I read "Don't Be Afraid of a Man" written in plain black, a lovelorn can make a woman grow old quickly. I think maybe aging is what we call growth and maturity.

By the way, it is also written in the book that if you don't have enough energy, don't fall in love easily, because you can't deal with a broken love.

So does anyone want to be Jane Austen? hehe. think? Well, then your mind needs to be strong enough and have extraordinary wisdom!

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  • Briana 2022-03-28 09:01:06

    Four and a half stars. Beautiful, but tragic. My tears have never fallen as straight as today, this is the first time, right in the woods. When Jane was trembling with helpless and angry accusations because of her sadness and sadness, he suddenly rushed over desperately and kissed her, as if saying to her a thousand times ten thousand times I'm sorry, I love you.

  • Mae 2022-04-23 07:02:50

    Don't think of it as Austen, it's still a more beautiful love fairy tale. But this is Austin, and she would never have had such a story anyway.

Becoming Jane quotes

  • Tom Lefroy: Was I deficient in rapture?

    Jane Austen: Inconsciousness!

    Tom Lefroy: It was... It was accomplished.

    Jane Austen: It was ironic.

  • Jane Austen: This, by the way, is called a country dance, after the French, contredanse. Not because it is exhibited at an uncouth rural assembly with glutinous pies, execrable Madeira, and truly anarchic dancing.

    Tom Lefroy: You judge the company severely, madam.

    Jane Austen: I was describing what you'd be thinking.

    Tom Lefroy: Allow me to think for myself.

    Jane Austen: Gives me leave to do the same, sir, and come to a different conclusion.