In critical moments, love is sacrifice

Kacie 2022-03-22 09:02:08

When I expected Jane to give up on running away with Tom, I joked that she would give up on love or she wouldn't be a great woman. Of course, this is just a joke, because her greatness is because she wrote six famous novels such as "Pride and Prejudice", not because she gave up her love for some moral reason, nor because she kept chastity for a lifetime." Spencer".

One scene in the movie impressed me very much. Jane said goodbye to Tom, who was going to run away with her, and then returned to her home. A friend asked her, what happened? She answered calmly, nothing. (nothing happened) The moving effect of this sentence is very strong, at least I think so. After experiencing the earth-shaking changes and emotional torment, in the end, there are only two words that can be expressed. have what? ! Yes, nothing. Because in the eyes of others you can't see anything at all, so there can only be "nothing".

It's like Tori Amos sings in silent all these years, finally there's nothing left.

And then it's just one more casualty.

It makes me feel as if at critical moments, love is sacrificed, it is like a useless flashy luxury to play, admire and show off when comfortable, and at critical moments, for family affection, sacrifice it! For friendship, sacrifice it! For the sake of the country, it is even more necessary to sacrifice it!

Nothing is born, except responsibility. There is a saying: When a person comes to the world, his other half, another person, also comes to the world and waits for him. This is the dream of an idiot.

What is precious is that it was after this sweet and later painful choice that Jane grew up and matured, she wrote Pride and Prejudice, and she could also say to her mother in the kitchen, I was wrong , I think I don't understand you enough.

Maybe Tom is right, great words cannot be written without some experience and experience. But Tom is a poor boy with a bright appearance who lives on his uncle, so what is his so-called experience? Is it poverty and suffering? Is it because she hopes that Jane will experience the so-called scorching world without the care of a happy little family?

When watching the film, I also joked that a smart woman always grows up by borrowing a man.
In the morning, I read "Don't Be Afraid of a Man" written in plain black, a lovelorn can make a woman grow old quickly. I think maybe aging is what we call growth and maturity.

By the way, it is also written in the book that if you don't have enough energy, don't fall in love easily, because you can't deal with a broken love.

So does anyone want to be Jane Austen? hehe. think? Well, then your mind needs to be strong enough and have extraordinary wisdom!

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Becoming Jane quotes

  • Jane Austen: [regarding Mr. Wisley] His small fortune will not buy me.

    Eliza De Feuillide: What will buy you, cousin?

  • Jane Austen: Cassie, his heart will stop at the sight of you, or he doesn't deserve to live. And, yes, I am aware of the contradiction embodied in that sentence.