"Until I found each other's...stuck"

In my opinion, at the beginning of the film, the daughter's rebellion and resistance to her mother was not mainly due to her mother overseeing her too much, but the mother arbitrarily preconceived that she was a bad child: for example, suddenly shouting at her brother or even The mother thought that the daughter was torturing the younger son with big bullying, another example was the disharmony with a female classmate, the mother thought that it was because the daughter did not cultivate and refused to make good relationship with the female classmate, and the mother thought that she got an F in the exam. It was the daughter who was making random excuses and directly and strongly denied that the teacher deliberately targeted her. For example, after learning that the daughter and the boy whom he admired were met in the repentance room, the mother did not hesitate to think that the boy was the same as the daughter by the teacher. Punish the students badly.
But as the audience in the audience, I can see the real situation behind the scenes very clearly, so in my heart, I really wronged my daughter.
Then my mother repeatedly emphasized to her daughter that it is you who are not good enough to get along well with others.
From a psychological point of view, the mother is giving her daughter an extremely negative psychological suggestion: you are not good, everything is your fault. And if this behavior is based on virtual reality, the daughter's negative psychological hints to her mother will not only be disapproval and low self-esteem, but will also bring disgust and resistance to her mother.
Therefore, I think my daughter's attitude towards her mother is actually very normal.
The film seems to have been focusing on the mother and daughter’s focus on "appreciating each other’s strengths". The most strenuous thing is to let the mother know how well her daughter plays the piano, and know that the boy her daughter appreciates is actually polite, cultivated and moral. Good youth with connotation and interest. But in fact, what moved me most was that my mother finally had the opportunity to know the truth about her daughter’s “badness”, such as the insidious frame of the female classmate, such as the teacher’s revenge for love and hatred, — my mother finally had the opportunity to know that her daughter never lied. , The daughter has been enduring the torture that the close relatives could not believe.
"If I were to be replaced by you, the result would not be that way!" When the daughter was replaced by a mother, the mother even maliciously altered the female classmate's test paper with "low morals", and even exposed the scandal of the teacher's revenge behavior in public. Is she more noble than her daughter?
If I say "appreciate each other's strengths", I would rather give this compliment to the girls in the girls band. They always say to their daughter: "You are great at playing the piano! You are excellent!" It is because of their encouragement, my daughter. Only then can I try my best to shine on a certain stage.
Is this ironic enough? The daughter's only "strength" was nurtured by others, and the mother who was supposed to be the closest to her gave her an immense depression and anger, and despair that was almost in place.
Don't vomit.

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