The film tells about a pair of mother and daughter with different tastes and living habits. On a strange Friday morning, they find that their bodies are on the opposite sides—that is, mothers become daughters, and daughters become mothers. Helpless, they had to walk into each other's life: the mother went to her daughter's school, and the daughter went to replace her mother as a psychologist. They understand each other from different angles, and let the mother and daughter learn to understand each other again, but the premise is that they must find a way to change back before showing their feet in front of outsiders. In the film, the mother never understood her high school daughter, and tried to control her daughter’s life, and did not allow her to participate in the band. She criticized her daughter’s frequent F, and always said with certainty, “If I were you, I would definitely work hard. ...I can pass all the exams...". The daughter also didn't understand her mother. She tried to explain something to her mother and always believed that her mother was happy because she could "do whatever she wanted."
Watching the film, I also connected with the lives of my peers. Perhaps it is the difference between Chinese and Western education and cultural backgrounds. Chinese children are always behaved (at least I think it is). Even though we sometimes want to show up, our introverted thoughts seem to be deeply ingrained in our minds. We are more accustomed to obedient to our parents and follow their parents' arrangements to go on obediently. Although sometimes I often say to adults, "How nice you are, you can sleep as long as you want at night, no one can care! But our children always have to be controlled. How good is an adult...", I also It was in this kind of expectation that I grew up a little bit, but when I grew up, I found out that when I was happily listening to my parents saying "I'm older," why do I always look at the children running enviously? I always hear people say that if you don’t learn to change, you just refuse to grow up. I experienced the maturity of my thinking, accepted all kinds of unfamiliar knowledge I learned, listened to all kinds of indoctrination from adults, and tried to understand the strange and distant adult world.
Three years after the death of her husband, the mother in the film fell in love with another person and wanted to marry him. But she never asked her thoughtful and self-respecting daughter if she would be willing. The actual thought of my daughter is: no one can replace my father. And when they became each other, the daughter, as the "fiancée of the future stepfather", finally truly understood the stepfather's thoughts and the stepfather's love for herself and her mother... If it were not for this exchange, perhaps the daughter would never know the stepfather's Love. This is enough to show how important it is to express. If I love, I must express my love. Seeing this, I suddenly felt a little guilty. I love my parents so much, but it seems that I have never said "I love you" to my parents face to face in 14 years. At most, I stingyly said "missing you" in the letter or on the phone, and never told my parents my love for them. Although it is a written expression now, I want to say-Mom and Dad, I love you. Every day I grow up, my love will be a little bit more. My parents not only give me skin, but also give me thought and character.
I know that there is no such thing as changing roles in real life, but there is no need to use the magical cookies of the old Chinese lady in the film. I will experience the feelings of my parents as I grow up, and I hope my parents can understand a daughter who is getting bigger and bigger. heart of.
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