Loneliness is a disease

Hilbert 2022-03-22 09:01:39


After a period of failed love, after a few difficult days, I began to enter the season of loneliness. I have a lot of friends around me, but I still lack tenderness and emotion. I used to be so energetic for her and full of happiness in life. , Now I start to feel that I have a chronic disease - loneliness is a disease.


In the rainy season in the south, there is continuous rain outside the window, lonely invasion, typing on the keyboard, distracted, not thinking of her, but a kind of gloomy melancholy, but everything should continue.


I finally met the new one one day. She is very good, but I can't tell how good she is. I just feel that being with her is very warm and warm. Now I just want to live with her and cook for her. Delicious, she is tired, accompany her, she is sick, take care of her. When I was at work, I secretly sent her a text message and told her that I missed her very much today, but I must continue to work hard for the sake of a well-off life. Then she came back. She has to work hard. It's up to you to eat and eat porridge. I miss you. So they were very competitive


and then they separated. There was no separation, but the two gradually lost their passion. Sometimes I think about what passion is, such a strange and elusive thing, is there really no passion? Or they are used to each other, and they feel that the other side is by their side when they are separated. Love needs fresh air.


After two people separated, they began to feel nothing, going to work, after get off work, exercising, reading books, watching movies, gathering with friends, and occasionally having one or two romantic encounters, purely playing with ambiguity, just like the stickiness of those suitors, let them It's all up and down, I know what I want to do, about love, I look forward to it and I'm afraid of being hurt, I still have the old him (she) in my heart, but it's just a shadow, not very real, even vague, spelling it out. I wanted to wipe it clean and see it clearly, but I never imagined that it was a watercolor painting that had encountered moisture, and it was all mixed up.


Loneliness is a disease, and loneliness invades.

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The Lake House quotes

  • Simon Wyler: Where's your brother?

    Alex: I sent him away. He wasn't feeling well. You know how he is, he worries.

    Simon Wyler: Yeah, I know. He gets that from your mother, I'm afraid. She always worried too much.

    Alex: What are you looking at?

    [looking at architectural plans]

    Simon Wyler: Hmm? Oh, yeah, here, take a gander. It's a proposal for a museum.

    Alex: Who is it?

    Simon Wyler: Someone new.

    Alex: Oh, I like the walkways, where the light falls. What are the materials?

    Simon Wyler: Granite. Aluminum.

    Alex: White panels are straight out of Meier... but the interior color coming through the front windows, that's different. It's not new, but it's clean, uncluttered. I like it.

    Simon Wyler: When was the last time you were in Barcelona?

    Alex: Years ago, with you, Mom and Henry.

    Simon Wyler: Do you remember visiting Casa de la Caritat?

    Alex: The almshouse.

    Simon Wyler: That's right. You mentioned Meier. His Barcelona museum stands in the same area as Casa de la Caritat. It drinks the same light. Meier designed a series of louvered skylights to capture that light and cast it inward to illuminate the art within, but indirectly. And, that was important, because although light enhances art, it can also degrade it. But, you know all that already, you son of a gun. Now, this... where do you suppose this is to be built?

    Alex: I have no idea.

    Simon Wyler: Oh, but you said you liked it.

    Alex: Conceptually.

    Simon Wyler: Now, come on. You know as well as I do that the light in Barcelona is quite different from the light in Tokyo. And, the light in Tokyo is different from that in Prague. A truly great structure, one that is meant to stand the tests of time never disregards its environment. A serious architect takes that into account. He knows that if he wants presence, he must consult with nature. He must be captivated by the light. Always the light. Always.

  • Alex: There should be a stairway down to the water, a porch, a deck. Here, you're in a - in a box. A glass box with a view to everything that's around you... but you can't touch it. No interconnection between you and what you're looking at.

    Henry Wyler: I don't know, you know. He's got this big maple growing right in the middle of the house.

    Alex: Containment.

    [He pushes a button which opens a glass door]

    Alex: Containment and control. This house is about ownership, not connection. I mean, it's beautiful. Seductive, even. But, it's incomplete.

    [He pauses]

    Alex: It was all about him. Dad knew how to build a house, not a home. But you know... I think he wants us to do what he couldn't. But, admitting that would mean admitting that he came up short in some way... that he could do more. And that tortures him.

    Henry Wyler: Do you remembering being here with Mom?

    Alex: I remember she tried to make it work here... with us... with him.