undeniably high-profile love epic full of high praise for love.
Although love is not the whole of life,
it can enhance the beauty of our limited lives.
This movie is a love encyclopedia. I haven't seen such a pure love movie for a long time, and I didn't expect it to be really touching
. First of all, I want to say a few things about the information the movie itself brings to us.
1. Young love is really beautiful. This is obvious to all
. 2. Sincere and hot emotions can move people the most. What impresses me most is sincerity
3. Material is absolutely the foundation for people to survive and pursue their dreams. There is no doubt about that. If Ferrentino in the movie hadn't had a career, how could he have gotten that opportunity more than fifty years later and seized it well.
4. Partners in marriage or in life need to be tolerant. True love itself is inclusive. Difficulties often outweigh joys in getting along. But whenever a difficulty is overcome, there is always the sublimation of the relationship between the two. Face up to the problem itself and solve it together, not a relationship in which one side compromises and the other is strong. Fermina and her husband have done a great job, and it's admirable. I don't think that's not love. On the contrary, that kind of love is more real, and it's solid in reality. Who can guarantee that Fermina and Ferrentino will be able to tolerate each other and maintain a constant temperature when they are really together?
5. Filentino's way of love. satisfy what he wants. When you can't give him what he needs, you can only bless or even help him get what he wants. Give him what he wants when you can possibly give him what he wants. We are not ashamed to express our love, but we must never restrain or pressure each other. Each of us has the obligation to give freedom to others. Filentino in the movie is so in love with Fermina, he has never bound her, when she no longer chooses him, he is not aggressive, after she gets married, he just works hard Waiting quietly has never affected her married life. After her husband's death, he was only out of love and only in ritual. He expresses his emotions in a very sincere way. Most importantly: he respected her from start to finish. (Respect is very important - the most basic way to maintain people's relationship)
6. Sex. In the film, the role of sex on Filentino should be twofold, the first is purely to satisfy sexual desire, and the second is to cure pain. Perhaps also hidden is the desire to find another love in sex. Unfortunately, it was not found.
7. There is nothing more difficult than love. (It can't be said that it is "the most" but it is also "quite")
8. Please don't give up. Don't give in prematurely.
9 "Age has no real meaning except in physical space, human nature is resistant to the passage of time, and our inner life is eternal, which means that our spirit remains youthful and alive as we were in our glorious years, Looking at love from this aspect, love is grace, not a means to an end. Love is everything. It starts with love. It ends with love. We have a strong desire to survive. How should we deal with love that has been abandoned and become a lonely soul? 10. "
Life (not death) has no limits."
Is the love waiting for fifty-three years, seven months and eleven days credible?
Is the expectation of a lifetime not available or true love only once?
How can we decide that it is our true love?
What is the meaning of true love? Is it also just another manifestation of people getting out of loneliness, or destined to be lonely?
What human beings pursue is love or sustenance?
Is it an excuse to let him get rid of the unbearable reality and resist inner loneliness?
How many people can answer these questions objectively and comprehensively? Of course, the possibility cannot be ruled out.
Moved by the story, it is a fact, why bother to analyze it like this?
in my opinion. Most of us need a way and an answer anyway. On a larger scale, we need faith.
There is no right or wrong, but there is a right to choose. Believe it or not, want it or not, do it or not.
Why not believe that this is love? Even if this is essentially a man's way of getting out of loneliness, so what? We should help each other.
Used to be a "perfectionist" who always wanted to know what true love was. Now think about it, maybe true love appeared in this "accidental". It appears, believe it if you want. Treat chance as inevitable. It's not just love, identifying something, not only refers to people, but can also be a dream, a sustenance, and a belief. Then chase it with the time and strength of our lifetimes. It may be accompanied by hard work, but at the same time it also brings a sense of happiness triggered by real existence. It also gives meaning to life. The first time he saw her, he said that he had found the meaning of his existence since then. We can't laugh at him for seeing a stranger as the opposite of what his life meant (a notion that accompanied him throughout his life). We should be envious. This is a kind of sustenance through loneliness. He thinks that he has a dream of love and waiting to be different. There is something that can affect a person's life, in fact, I regard it as a gift. A kind of natural human right.
The desire for freedom and love, freedom is a general pursuit, a general direction. And love is at the core of the human soul, and this core is afraid of darkness. Only love can comfort it. So I suddenly thought that if I could change my little love into a big love, I might be able to get closer to freedom without losing my love. I am lonelier than ever. Although there are relatives and friends around. But I can't tell. There is no truly free dialogue, there is always something to hide. But why do our feelings grow day by day? In fact, the reason is very simple, we have nothing to ask each other, we are very comfortable together and don't think about anything, and we also have common good memories. We know that we want to continue this relationship, we already know how to cherish it, do you understand? How important this is. But all in all, this is purely emotional. It's rare, but it's not what I want. The reason for realizing loneliness is that I'm probably going to end up facing the consequences of going alone. To use one word to describe the current state of life, it is "suffering interest". I know no one wants to hear it. On the other hand, I liked sincerity, but I didn't do it myself, and I didn't cheat, mainly because I couldn't say what I wanted to say the most. I'm not sincere either. How ridiculous this is
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