I've been in some relationships, I've been Adele, I've become Emma; I've dated similar people, and I've dated people who are very different. In the end, I feel that the important thing is not the difference, but the attitude towards the difference. In other words, differences are not the main factor that affects a relationship, but the most important thing is how deep the mutual love is.
Emma is a self-centered, strong, proactive person. She is different from Adele, who is naive and simple; she knows exactly what she wants, and she will take the initiative to fight for it, even "unscrupulous". At the beginning, she seduced Adele with a girlfriend, and finally at the party, she also actively sought Lise's favor for her own future (see other people's film reviews to learn about this detail).
She got together with friends to discuss "advanced" art, but didn't chat with Adele about Adele's life. There was only one boy who had a good impression of Adele. After knowing that Adele was a kindergarten teacher, he said, then you like children very much. I'm afraid that few people are really interested in Adele's life, and at that time, Adele's eyes lit up with tired and bored eyes.
Emma didn't even speculate on Adele, she just projected her own thoughts on Adele. Even though Adele has repeatedly emphasized that she likes children very much and enjoys her job; Emma always says, why don't you do something that makes you happy? In fact, the unhappy person is Emma, and the one who can no longer be satisfied in the relationship is Emma; but she didn't say it directly, she put the blame on Adele and said, I don't think you are happy, I don't think you can Satisfaction only in me.
How ironic was that conversation at the restaurant reunion? Emma said that she had a good time with her new love, the three-year-old child, and showed that she liked children, but God, Adele, who has been with you for so long, is a kindergarten teacher, why didn't you ask her? Dale's kindergarten kid? Why don't you like them?
Emma probably didn't even understand Adele, let alone understand. What she wanted was clear: sex.
Adele is full of sexual tension.
There are many scenes of Adele eating, and a lot of close-ups of her mouth, clean but lustful, erotic but very clean. Emma was attracted to Adele's sexual energy, and she was only attracted to it.
Many people say that they are of different classes and that they want very different lives.
But how can there be people in the world who are 100% the same and in harmony everywhere?
Absolutely not.
You have seen how many similar people are separated, and how many different people love each other. The only difference is that those who love each other appreciate and tolerate each other, while those who do not love each other criticize and reject each other.
Finally Adele turned to leave.
I silently applaud her.
Girl, she just wants to sleep with you, she doesn't love you at all.
Girl, you deserve someone who doesn't need you to change, who likes your sloppy food, who likes your greasy, fluffy hair, who likes you who likes children, who likes you who hate to talk about art.
Some people always say that it is not uncommon to encounter sex and love, but the difficult thing is to encounter understanding.
I don't agree. Understanding is not that important, I don't care whether the other person understands me or not, after all, I don't understand myself well. When encountering sex, it is not unusual to encounter understanding; the most difficult thing is that someone "loves" the "real you". It's not you when you talk eloquently, it's not you who is bright and beautiful, it's you who can eat, drink and sleep, it's you who is too ordinary.
People who understand you may not love you.
But those who truly love you will try to understand you.
He may have many differences with you, he may want to break his head and still don't understand you, but this will not affect his efforts to accompany you and hug you. It doesn't stop him from loving you. as long as he loves you.
Finally, the poem that Adele taught children in class is for you
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