Uncle Kong can be understood to some extent as a manifestation of the Electra complex. I always think that I don’t have an Electra complex because I always criticize and inherit my father. Although he is very wise, his training for me is no different from a man. He always emphasizes hard work, independence, and wisdom. Feel dependence and intimacy. Later, I felt that the Electra complex is not necessarily an attachment to a father or someone like a father, but an ideal image of a father you think. So I found that this image does exist in my heart.
In the same way, Lolita must also have roots, just like the one in "Lolita", there is always a history. It may be simply summarized as a male’s desire to be worshipped and conquered, or it may be more complicated.
Thinking of this level, in fact, I have more pity for each other in my heart. In fact, everyone knows what this is all about, but knowing the problem is one thing, and getting rid of control is another. Like he said, sometimes people are really divided. At this time, accusations are actually meaningless.
So I was so careful to get to know this person. There is no moth to fight the fire like Jenny, and it probably has something to do with reading psychology. Sometimes they will drift out to analyze the relationship as if the soul is out of the body. This process does have indescribable spiritual and spiritual satisfaction. He understands you, knows how to care about you, knows what you need at your age, and knows where your vitals are. He will give you pointers intentionally or unintentionally. He can often cause you to think differently, making you feel emotionally and rationally that this person can always give you surprises. Even at some moments, there will be a feeling of being hit by a word.
However, in this scene between Loli and the uncle, the screenwriter will always be the uncle. You can make noises, you can make noises, you can toss, but you'll always be within the range he delineated, and you can't get out of his five-finger mountain. He knows exactly what he wants, but you don't necessarily.
In fact, he is not controlled by you but by his complex. In fact, the same is true for you, no matter whether you are in the Electra complex or looking for a shortcut, it is always your inner desire that is calling, and the other party will come into your eyes. Otherwise, after all, he is really just an old man. But this old man will always realize this point earlier than you: the protagonist can change the complex, but the feelings remain the same.
In reality, it is difficult to meet someone who understands you, and it is not easy to meet someone who can tell you a story. But even more difficult is that even if you meet such a person, don't be immersed in the world they tell you, but turn around and continue to pursue a more exciting life for yourself. You can absorb the nourishment they give you and continue to move up, but if you can't, at least don't sink.
In fact, this principle applies to many things. The easier to get things, sometimes the higher the price.
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