I happened to meet the expectant mother Wenqiu today, and discussed the physical and psychological changes after becoming an expectant mother. She mentioned that she was embarrassed to buy junk food alone, because she was afraid of others' opinions and criticism. In the film, Maro is also reminded by others when she buys coffee. It turns out that society is so harsh on pregnant women. It was also mentioned that there are many pregnant women in the hospital for maternity examinations, but not many in public places. There will be eyes from others that make me uncomfortable, and I will not want to go out because of physical inconvenience.
How can I take care of myself and my children after becoming a mother?
Thinking of getting married soon, and then becoming a mother, are you ready? What do you need to prepare?
I can't believe it, I don't want to believe that this is my biggest dream. I chose a path that too many people are taking, and I don't even know if I want it or not. Chatting with them today, Wen Qiu asked us, why don't you resist being a mother? Yes, because this concept has been deeply ingrained, just like finishing elementary school and going to junior high school, and going to high school is for the university entrance examination.
Although I also know that the purpose of marriage is not to have children, it seems that having children is just going to happen naturally, no need and no one will ask whether to choose the path.
I drove me to the station and mentioned about my cousin. I asked my parents why they had to get married. My father replied, "You will know in 20 years."
Will I know in twenty years? If my child asks me this in the future, will I answer the same way? Who knows.
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