I really like the rhythm of the music and the language of the camera. Several grandparents are sitting on the airport benches, with the rhythmic music, which is quite a cool feeling. The film is full of British cold humor, which makes you laugh out loud in the library. (The film is like an Indian road film and a landscape film, which makes people want to go to India to take a bus and a bouncing car.)
1. "Will it get better in the future?"
In one scene, on the bus late at night, the grandma said that her husband had passed away, and after another grandpa said feel sorry, the grandma asked, "Do you think we will get better?" "Oh don't ask me. I'm more panicked than you are....No, it should be very different" This short shot reminds me of the sentence I wrote before, everyone has two lives, the first life is our ex For half our life, we are very active and live a good life, for fear that if we fail to do one step well, we will make a wrong step, so we are cautious and worry about gains and losses. Emotional vortex.
But only when we are over 30 and mature slowly, can we be more brave to choose at the crossroads of life, we have been able to look at the ubiquitous "change" with a peaceful mind, and even understand that life is change itself, impermanence is There are often. We have stopped pursuing the so-called success too much, and sometimes we can even laugh at ourselves as a loser calmly. Of course, when I dreamed back at midnight, I thought that I was such a failure! If only I had a next life, I would live a better life in my next life! But after the loss, we have to tell ourselves that this is only a necessary process. Only through these dark moments of loneliness and collapse can we gradually understand that people only have one life, and we cannot place our hopes on the next life after death. In this life, we must bravely grasp what we can grasp, and in this life we must live a serious and happy life. At this time, we also understand that we are willing to let go and let go. Only when we give up can we gain, and then we understand that all the things that we can’t let go of are just a false obsession, and they are all empty. It is better to grasp the present, grasp the future, and increase various life experience. Through this mental journey and the phoenix nirvana, we, as a human being, have truly opened a second life.
2. "No one can go back to the past because of nostalgia"
Another set of shots was more impressive. The old man with a big beard was always looking for an affair. He always used his exquisite appearance and seemingly non-existent lies to package himself, but every time he failed to get good results. When he saw a delicate and elegant grandma in a restaurant, he began to open his heart and said, I am lonely, and they really began to communicate, communicate, and talk. Mary and max seems to have said that no one is perfect and no one is perfect, but when meeting someone who is worthy, sincerity and openness are important. Of course, the premise is that the other party is a person worthy of your open heart, he will always protect you, even if you hurt him inadvertently, he will protect you.
Everyone has some moments when they want to go back to the past, because we always think the past is too good, but we forget that the past is good because we are too good, so when the past becomes the past, the reality is in front of us When the time comes, we must believe that the future will be better, because we ourselves are still so beautiful, so we need to free ourselves from the past, oh no, it is not enough to be free, we must review, think, and improve. Hey-hey.
It's like that couple, the wife said I'm leaving India, I'm leaving, don't tell me to stay, it's just your obsession, it's because of your kindness and loyalty, you don't want to end it all , but in fact, we should really go to find our own happiness, bye! I'll be fine!
PS In addition to laughing and philosophical points in the movie, there is actually a point of crying~ There is one place that impressed me a lot, that is, the gay grandfather finally summoned the courage to find the former lover, he is him or his grandfather walked down the steps, he Also stood up from the poker table, they slowly came together, hugged deeply, my God! cry! Isn't this what true love is? !
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