In [how I met your mother], Barney said: “In the relationship between two people, there must be a suitor and a yielder.” A
suitor: externally or internally, lower than the yielder.
Subjugator: Externally or internally, higher than the pursuer.
In this relationship, the suitor is kneeling and the bower is standing; or the suitor is standing and the bower is sitting. The condescending man overlooks the suitor with a condescending attitude.
2.
Actually, it's not that you are not worthy of her, but that you are not worthy of yourself.
Emotional matching is not what outsiders say, you two make a cute couple, or you don't deserve her. Rather, you think you two are very suitable together. Only when you like each other and fit each other can you be the best partner.
3. Being
excellent is not a good condition. Those who are extremely good are not interested.
Why?
Because everyone feels that they must have a lot of people to pursue, add more and less oneself, and reduce oneself a lot, why bother to join in the fun? Walk away directly and find the one that looks more reliable.
Do you think Hsu Qi complained in the talk show that no one dared to chase her?
And people who are too good, people are afraid to approach them. One is that they can be seen from afar without being scornful, and the other is such a good person, who compares himself in every aspect, and standing with them is a foil. What's the point of that?
Only people who are confident that they are good enough and capable are willing to do such thankless things.
4. People
without self-knowledge are extremely sad.
Do you think Yang Lijuan and Andy Lau have similarities with Mao? They are people from two different planets.
This suitor even sacrificed his own father, and the succumb is still unwilling to succumb (it is unnecessary and impossible), so what else is there to say? Just take it for yourself.
Another example is the male protagonist in this film, who is obviously a TEN, kind, beautiful, considerate, gentle, honest,...but family members, friends, and outsiders think he is not handsome enough, his body is not good enough, his education is not high enough, and he works. Not decent enough...but it hurts him every day, making him think he is a FIVE.
Originally, he and the heroine were both TEN, but this dislocation of self-understanding caused the two to almost break up.
5. The
last paragraph is very cool, the actor finally realizes that he is a TEN, he said to those superficial people: "Fuck you! Fuck you all! "
Why don't you dare to say a word to those who derogate you, go to your mother? of?
Because you still don't know how beautiful you are.
6.
Keep your head up, don't be the suitor of any relationship, and don't be the succumb to any relationship.
Boring.
Seven,
you are yourself, so it's good for you.
Tell yourself, I am fine, I am worthy of anyone.
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