2021.04.11

Orpha 2022-03-21 09:02:01

The beginning of the film is really "ugly", because the audience's perspective is from the old man Anthony, but every time we get new information from the old man's perspective, the previous "seen" will be denied. , so the audience can't figure out which thing is true and which thing is false, the only thing that can empathize is that the old man is in pain, because the audience has been brought into his perspective. We felt his fear of going to a nursing home, his perception of his daughter's exhaustion, his apology for disturbing his daughter's family, and his helplessness when he was slapped by his daughter's husband. These past memories were put into a blender and recombined countless times in his mind. Occasionally, when he woke up, he found himself in a nursing home. So he hugged the young nurse and cried non-stop. An elderly man said: I miss my mother, and my mother's eyes are very beautiful.

In fact, the first half describes the hallucinations in his memory, which is similar to the fantasy that mathematician Nash saw in the movie "A Beautiful Mind", but this one is obviously more realistic and depressing in handling. In "A Beautiful Mind", the love of Nash's wife, the warmth of his former Princeton classmates, and the Nobel Prize's recognition of Nash's equilibrium are all important "warm colors" in the film. In this film, we only see an extremely tired daughter - his only relative. He used to be an engineer, but now, all that awaits him are endless haunted memories and death.

The first half of the film is about the discomfort caused by the confusion of time and space, and the second half is about the helplessness after revealing the truth and the powerlessness of the old man losing control of his own destiny.

The worst part is that this mental illness can happen to anyone, especially the elderly. And as we get older, we and our parents get older too, and that feeling of powerlessness is really scary.

Cherish the time you are awake, try to create as much happiness as possible, and don't forget the few "warm colors" in your life because you run too fast.

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Extended Reading
  • Ophelia 2022-03-27 09:01:08

    I happened to be flipping through a novel about my daughter caring for her Alzheimer's mother. Alzheimer's disease outside the movies is more embarrassing, more desperate, and more comprehensively depriving people of decency, energy, will and order in life. There is no well-organized and spotless fashionable house in the film; there is no smiling, kind-hearted caregiver; the elderly will not only lose their memory, but also incontinence, stink, have violent tendencies, wandering behavior, and even get lost. Some say that the elderly are as helpless as children. But the child represents growth, and the hope around him is entrusted to him, while the old man will only go step by step toward the twilight of no return. The feeling of staring at a child is completely different from staring at an old man. The former is like reading a picture scroll that is about to be unfolded, while the latter is an old book that is so broken that the writing is annihilated and cannot be put together. Because of this, looking at his father's turbid old tears on the screen, how could the viewer not be heartbroken and cry for it. Anniton, 84 years old, born on December 31, 1937, is a national treasure in the world.

  • Raleigh 2022-03-27 09:01:08

    Seeing Alzheimer's disease from a first-person-like perspective for the first time is too difficult. He's been looking for his watch because the time has been confused in his world

The Father quotes

  • The Woman: First... we'll get dressed, shall we?

    Anthony: Yes.

    The Woman: We'll get dressed, and then we'll go for a walk in the park, shall we?

    Anthony: Yes.

    The Woman: Good. The trees and all the leaves. Then we'll come back here, and we'll have something to eat. And then you can have your siesta, all right? And then if you're feeling on good form, we can go for another little walk in the park. ust the two of us. Because it's such a lovely day. It's sunny outside. And we have to go while it's sunny. We have to take that chance. 'Cause it never lasts long when the weather's this good, does it?

    Anthony: No.

    The Woman: So... let's get dressed. Is that all right?

    Anthony: No.

    The Woman: Come on now.

    Anthony: No.

    The Woman: Come on, baby. It's all right. Come on... Shh. Easy now. Easy. You're going to feel all right in a minute, I promise you. Everything will be all right.

  • Anthony: World is turning.