It's a bit ridiculous to translate to "being a mother", although it can barely be said that Sarah is learning to be a mother, but why not Brad? Growth is slow, like a child's desire to be recognized, praised and appreciated, when we think we are When you are an adult, you don't actually. Only when a person no longer needs the approval of others, he truly matures. Love is such a game of appreciation and praise, so it has become a fairy tale in adults' dreams. In Brad and Sarah In this so-called love, there are actually too many impurities. For Sarah, it seems that she has invested more and more real. She fell in love with this housewife and man who takes her children to the playground every day. Maybe she In my heart, I beautified him as a good man who loves his children and his family. Seeing that Brad received the strange eyes of neighbor mothers, he has a kind of motherly love. But Brad is not. The excuse was to flirt with Sarah, and he wouldn't hesitate to choose not to have children when he ran away from home. After going to bed Sarah said she didn't feel guilty and Brad said he would, yes, it's like watching Sarah after dinner The same, Brad actually has a pretty perfect family, his wife is young and beautiful, has a successful career, and they get along well. The so-called ML because of the children is just a trivial matter, Brad's marriage is not bad. Brad cheated because he lost confidence in front of his wife, so he went to play night football to watch the boys skateboard, and ended up doing it when Sarah seduced him, funny when Sarah cheered him on the courtside At that moment, even he thought he was really in love, but in fact he just fell in love with that feeling. As soon as Brad proposed to elope, Sarah hesitated and then agreed. Fortunately, the trip was unsuccessful, otherwise Sarah would find out that everything was wrong. It's just wishful thinking about being a girl, Brad is not only inferior and naive, but more frightening is that he doesn't love Sarah.
On the crucial night, Brad fell seriously because he couldn't resist the temptation to try his dream skateboard, and he missed the date of the two. Sarah met Ronald at the playground at night. Fear and pity were intertwined. At this moment, she finally found out that her daughter is the real one. The person she truly loves. She chose to bring her daughter home. This was a turning point and a chance for redemption for Sarah, and I was vaguely worried that her childishness would make her still obsessed? And Brad , Lying on a stretcher and being taken to the hospital, the only person he seems to want to inform is still his wife Kathy. Although Kathy makes him feel heavy pressure, only Kathy is the only person he can trust and rely on.
Juejian turned into a family, and the strong and weak relationship between him and Kathy is not a balance Powerless, in the swimming pool that was noisy because of his appearance, the swimming pool was silent for a moment, everyone escaped from the swimming pool like a wild beast, he was the only one in the empty pool, and finally was taken away by the police in shame. Such a shame in his life He had to endure too many experiences. He didn't even dare to come out when his mother was pushed over by a retired policeman in order to protect him. In essence, he was a very timid and cowardly person. At home, he is a good boy who listens to his mother, and was devastated when he lost his mother. At the end, his choice was a little surprising but very reasonable. He wanted to be a good child.
Sarah's husband did not make many appearances. It can be seen from the line drawing that this is a person who has been completely materialized in the commercial society, successful in his career, arrogant, neglecting his relationship and family. He did not even have the interest to redecorate when he remarried Sarah, and Sarah also just moved her old things into a room. This is a family in real crisis. Both husband and wife are not really ready to start a new life together. Sarah cannot be as comfortable as her husband expected to do a good job together. A housewife, after graduating with a master's degree in English, she still has dreams in her mind. She is on the cusp of a bull's horn. Seeing that her lovely daughter is eager to give her mother a gift, this mother who thinks she values her feelings indifferently makes her child wait outside the door , a real sadness arises in my heart.
Sarah's speech in the book group discussion "Madame Bovary" is actually a true portrayal of her inner change. Like Madame Bovary, she is trying to do something about this hopeless and uninteresting marriage. It is a pity that she and Madame Bovary also chose to chase the unrealistic bubble.
Maybe some people are really inappropriate, and long-term depression is indeed unbearable. But as an adult, I hope she can finally find a suitable solution, and It's not like a child escaping into another love. Love is just the beginning, marriage is a harder exercise.
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