The factors that determine who you are, mainly occur in the non-linguistic period, and such common sense has been ignored by the entire nation. …

Sigrid 2022-03-23 09:02:46

Don't be ridiculous, humans have not figured out the origin of their own self-consciousness, and they still want to make robots have self-consciousness? The brain hole tells me that if human beings have this ability, they will definitely allow the same kind to evolve more cool abilities, which cannot be replaced by robots. Like immortality? In fact, there are three types of people in the crowd,

One, like robots, there is no feeling, only logic. Such people may have suffered major traumas in childhood, such as long-term mental or physical abuse. In order to survive, the sensory system must be turned off. Just like in the play, the human boy asks being The robot beauty who was trafficked to the red light district, "Have you turned off the pain sensation?" "No, at least I have to feel the pain!" There is also hatred. In order to feel the whole world, she was brave enough to open the feeling system... Unexpectedly, feeling is also a kind of ability. Talented people may have a lot of achievements, but their interpersonal relationships are messed up, and the world they see is only a glimpse of the leopard... Avoiding the pain in the heart, but also numb as if to die... Second, there is feeling, but it is Like a stand-alone computer without an internet connection, you can only feel yourself, it is always "me, me, me", everything is me, and many times they seem to be empathetic, but most of them are at the cognitive level, not the feeling level. Feel the same. Relatively intelligent interpersonal relationships will be good, because I, I, I need to shine, so they will be self-disciplined and excellent. Most of us belong to this category, because of women's liberation, mothers go to work early after giving birth, most of the babies are deposited in the nursery, they can eat enough, but... There are two necessary factors for the baby to survive , food, love. Babies are held by their mothers and see themselves in the eyes of their mothers. Babies in the non-verbal period will only feel happy, safe, and trusted. Babies need countless such moments to consolidate a sense of security as a person, and The ability to trust and love. In the childhood of such people, the company of their parents is far from enough... In the nursery, there are a dozen or 20 cribs, the babies are lying dry, and they have not responded for a long time. The ability to regulate emotions can only experience endless emptiness and fear. But only intermittently, so they don't completely lose their senses, but they develop another ability to combat the fear of the endless nothingness, and that is fantasy. More professionally speaking: narcissism, the fantasy of having omnipotent control over those who have to get out of control. Such people are prone to problems in intimate relationships when they are adults, because in intimate relationships, you and I are both small and vulnerable. "Why can't you understand me?" This question has achieved a high degree of unity in the world.

Only in intimate relationships, will return to the depths of the trauma, experience the fear and nothingness of being abandoned again and again... Wandering in the void, waiting for redemption... Or restart the defense mechanism of the past, Re-imagining the return of the king, I have to say that this kind of blood is very healing. Many people get better after divorce or break up, realize their self-worth and look radiant. This is sublimation and also defense.

If you encounter similar problems, you may have more experience, but you will definitely fall into it again. Although it is traumatic, it is also the only hometown that has accompanied you... Go back again and again, just to get rid of, to Farewell, in order to become a more complete self. The way to break the deadlock is actually to meet a third kind of person, a good object. To make up for what is lacking, you need to see acceptance, understanding, and worthiness in his eyes. Re-consolidate the broken self structure.... Third, not only have feelings, but also have rich empathy, which is the legendary compassion. There are very few such people in the crowd. . . . If you meet such a friend, you are a good teacher and a good friend. If you meet such a lover, congratulations, you have won the lottery! Only a good object can assist you in the redemption of a lifetime. And most of us don't necessarily have such luck, so love is parted, resentment meets, can't ask, life is full of the beauty of suffering, you and I, mortals, can only pass by themselves.

Alternatively, find a qualified psychologist.

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