"Other men...I..." "How can you bear it?" "Because he's not perfect, because neither of us are perfect" "The Ring Story" Season 1 Episode 6, in the face of his partner's infidelity, this man makes The evaluation of Jiang Zi. "Ring Story", TV series category: Science Fiction. But in my opinion, it's more like a poetic anatomy drama of the human emotion genre. "Is it like the chocolate candy in Forrest Gump's hand? You don't know the taste of the next one until you eat it." "No, at least you know that chocolate is sweet. But you don't know until you open an episode of Ring Story. What does it taste like - it could be sweet, it could be abusive." That's how I read the amazing comment above. (The following contains spoilers, mind, do not read.) Faced with cheating, everyone's reaction is different. Angry, angry, heartbroken, doubtful, ego collapsed... and then? After that, we always have to make a choice. Some choose to accept. Or open one eye and close one eye, deceive yourself, as long as you don't face it directly, you can just continue to live like an ostrich; or just accept like the self in the film, "Although it is difficult, we can always past". Because no one is perfect, because "every time is over", he will always come back. Some people choose to leave, just like the male protagonist in the film, because every cheating is hurt, and this hurt will not stop, because the scumbag "can't resist the excitement of having a tryst with other people", although he never takes it seriously , and this kind of never seriously hurt the object of the tryst.
So the question is, how do we choose? In the face of cheating, the two selves in the film made diametrically opposite choices.
"Stay, even for a day." This is the choice of the self in the parallel world.
Behind this choice is a continuation of the Stockholm complex. After being abused for a long time, the hostage not only fell in love with the kidnapper, but also fell in love with the harm and the pitiful "sweetness" (the hostage's imagination and attachment) brought by the kidnapper. Like most couples who endure cheating for a long time, they are used to being in this unhealthy relationship and their presence in it. Leave? After leaving, who is "I"? Who can I meet again? Fear of the future and loneliness makes these victims "willing" to toss and turn in unhealthy relationships.
In the end, the male protagonist chose to leave.
"Where can you go after you leave?"
"I don't know, but it will always work out."
In the end, he failed to leave the parallel world, but he met again in the coffee shop the admirer who had always been unrelated, somewhat clumsy, and somewhat dull in the other world.
Unlike before, this time, the injury he received at the "perfect object" made him no longer look above the top, making him eager to establish his self-worth through the outside world. This time, he finally settled down and chatted with the other party. This time, he found that the two of them had so many common interests. This conversation finally no longer ended with an awkward chat, but went on happily. (Pleasant is my guess, after all, no one wants to continue an unpleasant conversation.)
As adults, we all know that this can't be regarded as a happy ending, but at most it can be attributed to the beginning of an opportunity.
For humans, emotions are the most difficult to describe and control. For heterosexuals, marriage, children and common property add "insurance" to each other's feelings to the greatest extent, and after these external forces are removed, same-sex feelings are more like the opening scene of a ring story, and the last few strokes require ourselves. fill in.
Finally, let's talk about my choice, I can't accept Aquaman, no matter how well he controls time and story, damage is damage.
As the saying goes, do not break, do not stand. Although we cannot know the future with certainty, we will never be able to have the opportunity to open up happiness without stepping out of the hut that sees no light.
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