Self-healing and go on your own way

Mitchell 2022-03-21 09:02:36

Delicate and tough, that's how I would rate such a film. I couldn't write anything for a long time after watching it, just like the movie itself has a lot of things left unfinished. Black nail polish, yoga balls, apple seeds, very stream of consciousness, all of which are connected later, from the complete nail polish that gives birth to a warm child, to the tearing and shattering of the nail polish after the child's death; On his wife, the yoga ball that was slowly deflated by her cigarette butt; the apple seeds spit out from the apple gnawing on the subway, and the apple seeds that finally sprouted from the refrigerator when the dust settled. Martha's character is very gritty, she doesn't seem to need anyone during the whole self-healing process, and no one actually helps her, which makes her feel a little indifferent, but I really appreciate this kind of Almost inhuman self-immersion, how many people in real life can do it, how many women can do it? Almost impossible as long as you are connected with people. At the same time, she is also very firm in herself. From her dispute with her mother, she expressed in court that the death of her daughter was not the fault of the midwife. I do not agree with saying that this is forgiveness or redemption, because everything from the beginning to the end is only about herself. In contrast, the image of the husband is much weaker. He was meticulous and quick to meet the needs of his wife when giving birth, and he was grief-stricken and tolerant of his wife when he lost his daughter. At this point, I think he is a good husband, but the situation has changed rapidly. Re-drinking, lying, cheating, not a single shot showed that he felt guilty, not even the slightest pause when he took his mother-in-law's check. At the same time, the wife went to the bar to drink and dance and kiss the men, but when she got further, she stopped and took a taxi home. There's no need to compare who is more grieving, but the wife has always been in the concept of doing the right thing. Another thing that touches me in the whole movie is that we are a team, maybe the true meaning of marriage is like this, not just husband and wife, but also partners. Sometimes when we get together, some scars are too big for us to overcome together. This is not even just a value. You can't find a specific reason, and you shouldn't deny it. It just happened, and you can only go on your own way.

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  • Monroe 2022-03-27 09:01:13

    The title of the movie makes it easy to think that it is a story of female indictment, but it is not. She has a strong and radiant image. The film opens with a short male protagonist, followed by a long and wonderful childbirth scene, setting a benchmark angle: Can others really empathize with a woman's state of mind? Then the story depicts two pairs of novel-style relationships: 1. The husband naturally cannot experience the pain of childbirth, but he collapses very much, echoing the opening paragraph. For him, this collapse may come from the face of his colleagues, otherwise why would he not go to work? What; 2. The strong mother has loved face all her life and is facing senile amnesia, and she can still show her experience at birth in detail. The audience understands that no one really thinks from the point of view of the heroine, she must move towards self-rescue. This may be a perspective that only European intellectuals have, and that directors with vested interests in Hollywood do not have. It gives the American story played by this American actor a brilliance and warmth that is different from the American narrative. Hollywood needs more of these perspective rescues.

  • Llewellyn 2022-03-26 09:01:09

    Childbirth itself is the wound The baby bursts into the world, tearing the mother's body, while the child's young skull is kept soft and fragile The child is the place to heal, and the split is the place to be lost and found

Pieces of a Woman quotes

  • Elizabeth: And I'm ashamed of me. That I wasn't a good enough mother to teach you how to stand up and speak for yourself, for God's sakes. And to deal with this. Like my mother taught me. After my father went into the ghetto, my mother found a shack, an empty shack, that she went into and gave birth to me. Without any help at all. She stashed me under the floorboards when she had to go out and steal food. So she could make milk enough to keep me alive, but just alive. Not strong enough to cry, or we'd be caught. When she finally got me to a doctor, he advised her to just let me go. That I wasn't... I wasn't strong enough to survive. But when she absolutely insisted, he picked me up by my feet and held me up like a chicken and said, "If she tries to lift her head, then there's hope." And you know what I did, Martha? I lifted my head. That's what I'm asking you to do now. Lift your head and fight for yourself, for God's sakes! Go out there and face that woman.

  • Lane: Yes, how did you feel holding your baby you had just given birth to?

    Martha: She smelled like an apple.