After watching Ma Nan, I kept thinking about why Ma Nan exists.
It was the working-class Dad Ma who ignored it again and again, or the sarcastic mother Ma who sneered at it again and again, which pushed the timid and fragile pony into the abyss of life.
In the play, Diane is also a poor girl who was tormented as a child. She walked out of her native family by herself. Maybe when she was alone, or when she was frustrated, she reinvested in the shadow of her native family.
These tragic people (horses) were not defeated by setbacks from the outside world, but they had already disarmed and surrendered in their own hearts before the battle began. Read about Kafka's experience the other day, times are different, but bad parents are everywhere.
The young and fragile Kafka was locked on the balcony by his strong father just because he wanted a glass of water at night as a "punishment" for not sleeping well at night. Kafka seemed to have lived on that balcony all his life, on that cold and desperate night.
From "The Metamorphosis" and "The Trial", there is a sense of powerlessness to life, the mysterious force that turned Samsa into a beetle, the two executioners who executed K, very much like Kafka's father's Big hands, strong and powerless to resist. Some parents are good or bad, they only care about the physical health of their children, and they don't seem to have heard of mental health in their world. Sometimes it feels like we're their investment, and the decline in grades is like the crash of a stock they've spent their entire lives investing in.
Why, why not be gentler?
We all have people like Ma Nan in our lives, maybe we are Ma Nan.
I used to be a middle schooler and rebellious, and I had the same inner monologue as the protagonist of "The Catcher in the Rye", hating everything. But when I really feel others and slowly show some of my own feelings, I find that the darkness in my mind has been dispelled, and I also feel that the world is not that bad. Before reading Tuo Lao's "Resurrection", I always didn't understand why such a boring story can be regarded as a masterpiece. Now it seems that this book tells us the secret of happiness: to care for others .
This is actually related to psychology. From birth, we are all narcissistic, and we will deify ourselves. When we grow up, we understand that there are other people in the world, and our needs are getting bigger and bigger. It is also becoming more and more difficult to achieve.
If we’re still stuck in our own world, too focused on ourselves and not distracted outward, we’ll be trapped in our own island, vulnerable, gray, and ugly.
When you gradually go deeper into the external world, and at the same time understand more and more about your own inner world, you will see that the external real world is sometimes healing, and the brightness seems to be better than your own inner world (Wu Zhihong "He Another one to talk to himself")
This is exactly what Teacher Wu said. However, there are always those idiots in life who can't communicate, mess around, and talk about your life being a mess. They may be your original family, the back desk of your bully at school, and the idlers in the community every day. A troublesome old man.
They are always close to your life and seem to be unable to get rid of them for a long time. What can be done about this kind of thing? My answer is to escape.
Focus on what you're working on right now and minimize the environmental impact of these people. Then wait until one day you have the ability to leave them, and then leave without a trace of nostalgia, and then you can never contact them without contact, and never care about your own business, and then slowly heal in a new relationship. Finding a hobby of your own is just as important, and your relationship can be more than just connecting with people. I really like a younger brother who plays the piano at station B. His name is Feng Yi . He plays the piano really well. The combination of video and audio is like a small live concert. I always thought that he played the piano so well, he was so handsome, and he had an optimistic and sunny feeling. He must be very active in school, but after his father revealed that he rarely spoke at school, it was very strange.
The secret to happiness is to have as wide a range of interests as possible, and to treat the people or things you are interested in as kindly rather than hostilely as possible. (Russell, "The Road to Happiness")
I really like the feeling of devoting myself to the things I like. Time will pass quickly at this time, but don't be afraid, the time at this time is a blessing to you, enjoy this feeling quietly , happy times are worth it. One of the characters I like very much in the horse man is the proud horse who said the right thing but did the wrong thing, but the meaningful words will not become meaningless because the wrong person said it.
"Bojack, when you're hurt, just run, keep running, no matter what happens. There will be people in your life who want to stop you, slow you down, but don't let them do it, don't stop running, don't look back The way to come. There is no attachment to the way, only the distance is worth looking forward to.”
Far away, here I come.
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