Knowing the essence of marriage can lead to a better life

Bianka 2022-12-31 05:09:20

After watching it, very enjoyable. After "Big Little Lies", Nicole Kidman is another good TV series. There are spoilers to follow, because I really want to talk about marriage.

From the front, I really believe that the male protagonist is not the murderer. Because as his first defense attorney said, he looks annoying, but he shouldn't kill people. At first, I even thought it was the mistress who was tired of the world. In order to cause trouble for the marriage and family of the two, he bought and murdered himself. It's also because the male protagonist's words are not wrong. This woman wants to copy the same life, otherwise why would she put her son into a noble school, and secretly paint his wife's paintings, and also share her heart with the wife, like repentance.

Later, I saw that the male protagonist suspected that his wife had a motive for committing the crime because his wife was photographed by surveillance, and already felt that the man should not save him even if he did not kill. And especially when his son found a tool of crime and wanted to exonerate him, he also suspected his son, he was scumbag. So, in fact, from his suspicion of his wife, to his suspicion of his son, and his wife finally defecting, the bottom line has been touched.

Finally, Nicole's wife's statement in court also illustrates the problem. As a wife, she was blinded by herself, and the husband she thought she recognized ignored his bad behavior. Therefore, through the prosecutor's questions, she can more clearly recognize the person she has known for 17 years. People with narcissistic personality disorder completely ignore what they have done wrong and are completely incapable of reviewing their own behavior.

Marriage is really about living with one eye closed. If it wasn't for Xiao San's pressing step by step and resolutely not giving up, she would not have fallen into this field. She is also a mother with a family and children, but she can't control herself, and even said she would take the initiative to tempt others. She underestimated human nature.

Some friends around said that middle-aged men go out to parties, they will take young girls, but some people always bring one, and some people often change. In China, loyalty to marriage is really getting lower and lower, so so many young girls would rather choose to be single. The cost of crime is also low.

Two people live together, it is simple to say, and the operation is really like drinking water, knowing whether it is cold or warm. It's just forbearance with each other. Whether raising children or facing temptation, we really need to find someone with the same values. It is understandable for girls to want a good life, but through shortcuts, not everyone has that good luck. You must have a strong heart and a rich spiritual life, otherwise you will be irresponsible to yourself for material things and the phrase "just be nice to me".

In fact, as the old father in the film said to the heroine, at the beginning, he felt that this man was not worthy of her, but she was too stubborn to insist on herself. Sometimes you have to listen to what your parents say. The heroine's love and belief in the hero was finally wiped out in court trials again and again. In the end, choosing not to support her husband was a brave step. If the heroine didn't forcefully help the hero at the beginning, the ending would have been doomed long ago. Therefore, it is also closely related to the title of "Undoing". After spending so much money and fighting for so long, the end is still the same.

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