Any family of origin can be a positive influence, provided it is recognized and interpreted positively

Matilde 2022-04-21 09:02:41

After watching "Marriage Story" and "The Squid and the Whale", I remember the film director Noah Baumbach from now on. The biggest impression after watching the movie is that the film is so real, the director is so real, and I really like this authenticity. Even in the face of reality, the so-called painting style is beautiful, and various skills are no longer important. For example, the movie "Squid and Whale" actually talks about the exquisiteness of the picture and the smooth transition. There is really no, it is a very ordinary life. The decorations are superfluous, so even the flaws are part of the perfection. Seeing the two children in the film reminded me that I had been left behind and grew up in the process of growing up, so I never felt a sense of belonging, and I don't know why. So when I was young, I always wanted to escape from that environment, so I could only study hard. In my reading career, since I became sensible in junior high school, I have become self-aware, and I have added a layer of idealism in the distance. That is to say, although my body and mind are here, my thoughts often drift into the distance. What is the distance, I also I don't know, it's not here anyway. I'm sure I'm not the only one in this situation because I find that many people are not in the moment. And people who really live in the moment are peaceful, calm, powerful, and blooming. Later, through practicing yoga, I continued to practice deliberately and live in the moment. I felt like I had my feet on the ground. It's thankful to be conscious of the behavioral patterns formed in childhood through a movie. After a period of time, I felt that my heart was very cold, and I couldn’t love at all. The so-called responsibility for my parents, helping the family to repair the house and other things under the shackles of society, I just felt that suffocation was a responsibility imposed on me by the society. Looking at it from another angle now, it is very difficult to get out of bed after the operation. It reminds me of my mother, who has endured so much to give birth to two children, cooking for the family in winter, soaking both hands in cold water, and having an abortion. The child's heart is broken, so that he has aged a lot. Thinking of this, he has love, strength, and responsibility in his heart. He feels that he is an adult, a creator, and a bearer. This is the responsibility I want, it is love, responsibility and responsibility from the inside out, not the moral kidnapping and restraint from the outside in. There is also my father, who is honest and honest. Although he has a great temper and quarrelled so loudly with his mother when he was a child, as a giver, bearer, and creator, all these are easily tolerated. dust thing. And if it is a taker, things will be put on a big scale, they will complain, they will be violent, they will destroy, and they will unconsciously find a sense of existence (deformed behavioral patterns). If you think about it, your parents will also be hurt. They also came with their original family. They have also experienced the dregs of society, the pit of society, and struggled to get through. We should really be tolerant, of course

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The Squid and the Whale quotes

  • Bernard Berkman: She's a very risky writer, Lili. Very racy. I mean, exhibiting her cunt in that fashion is very racy. I mean Lili has her influences in post modern literature, it's a bit derivative of Kafka, but for a student, very racy. Did you get that it was her cunt?

  • Sophie: Yeah. I mean, it's gross when he turns into the bug, but I love how matter of fact everything is.

    Walt Berkman: Yeah, it's very Kafkaesque.

    Sophie: [She looks at him oddly. She laughs] Cause it's written by Franz Kafka.

    Walt Berkman: Right. I mean, clearly.