Times are changing

Karlie 2022-10-06 02:52:18

I used to think that coming out of the closet was easy, just say it, but now I think about how immature it was at that time. When we were still students, we didn't have any confidence to come out of the closet at all. At that time, we thought it was very simple, just expressing ourselves and wanting our parents Knowing our emotional state, don’t think that we are unloved, worry that we will end up alone in the future, we think we are thinking of others, but we have not thought about the things after expressing ourselves, we are confident that we have done nothing wrong and will not hurt anyone. People, but living up to the expectations of their parents, these are also hurt. We have never thought that if our parents are firmly opposed, what can we do to fight against this powerful opposition?

Time, only time, I took my ex-girlfriend back to my house as a good friend, my parents liked her very much, she also took me back to her house, her parents also liked me very much, but we can't tell our truth The relationship, I think about it now, but I didn't say it. At that time, it was still too immature, and there was no way to be responsible for one's own choice, nor for the other party.

Coming out does take a long time to prepare, it can’t be done on a whim. First, live your life well, and then make money, and make sure you’re safe before you come out. This process may be long, but it’s necessary.

This is what adults call being responsible for themselves.

I have to say that Xiao K is really handsome in a suit and has the ability to make people bend into mosquito coils. In comparison, Sister Mai is much mediocre. . . Also scum, the subject of coming out of the closet is good, but I don't like CP.

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Happiest Season quotes

  • John: Hey, Harper not coming out to her parents has nothing to do with you.

    Abby: How could it not?

    John: Remind me, what did your parents say when you told them you were gay?

    Abby: Um, that they loved and supported me.

    John: That's amazing! My dad kicked me out of the house and didn't talk to me for 13 years after I told him. Everybody's story is different. There's your version and my version, and everything in between. But the one thing all of those stories have in common is that moment right before you say those words. When your heart is racing and you don't know what's coming next. That moment's really terrifying! And once you say those words, you can't un-say them. A chapter has ended, and a new one's begun. You have to be ready for that. You can't do it for anyone else.

    [pauses]

    John: Just because Harper isn't ready doesn't mean she never will be, and it doesn't mean she doesn't love you.

  • Tipper: We have been so worried about seeming perfect, but maybe we don't even know what perfect is. We have one daughter who has been unhappy in a marriage and felt like she couldn't tell us! And another daughter who just had her heart broken because she was afraid we wouldn't love her if she told us the truth. And the only reason that Jane is okay is because we gave up on her after she wouldn't stop biting in preschool. That is very far from perfect, if you ask me.