The story is very simple. The heroine went to visit her ex-boyfriend. Unexpectedly, this trip was to attend the wedding of her ex-boyfriend and another woman. She was in a hurry to learn that she was going to be a bridesmaid. The heroine found out that she still loved her ex-boyfriend. He started thinking about taking him back, but in the end the ex-boyfriend chose his fiancee, and the heroine finally became the bridesmaid and blessed them.
It's an old film more than ten years ago, but it still looks pretty good today. Love light comedy, there are many jokes in it, but it makes me cry and laugh, moved and sighed, because it is quite real, and that's why it touched me a lot.
There is a kind of woman who seems to be very free and easy and strong. She always looks like I don't care. Her joy and anger are invisible, making her mind unpredictable, and she is usually considered to be affordable. Type, but in fact, she is free and easy at all. She is not used to being intimacy with her partner in public. She dare not do things that she considers embarrassing. She dare not even say the three words I love you openly to the one she loves. . All her free and easy comes from her fragile and vulnerable self-protection. This kind of woman is like the heroine.
There is a kind of woman who has a gentle and delicate appearance, a little birdy, obedient, obedient, and even a silly cuteness, but she dared to express herself, crying and laughing are all on her face, she dared to do it for the one she loves Do things that even humiliate yourself, such as singing in a phony voice in the public, and even dare to say that I love you decisively to someone you fall in love at first sight. This kind of woman is like the hero's fiancée.
Obviously, two completely different women, the only similarity between them is that they love the same man. The two had two wonderful games in the film. One of them was that they took turns in the elevator to count the horrible shortcomings of the male protagonist. After speaking, they all understood one thing, that is, "I love "He", only one was cautiously hidden in his heart, and the other was said out loud.
The actor will invite the heroine to come to his wedding, presumably he thinks they are good friends, since they are good friends, there is no need to worry too much. But he forgot the most important point, there is no so-called pure friendship between men and women, especially after the breakup, men and women are less likely to say what they say is each other's best friends. There are two reasons. First, if the breakup is because you feel that the other party has something that you cannot tolerate, then naturally you don’t have a good impression of him, and then you are less likely to be friends. Second, if the breakup is not because you hate the other party, If you just feel a little tired of it or for other reasons, then you will be attracted to each other again after you break up, and the relationship will not be as simple as a friend. Of course, a friend of the opposite sex of the heroine is also cleverly inserted in the film, but he is a homosexual, which seems to further confirm this view.
The situation of the male protagonist and the female protagonist belongs to the second category mentioned above. I don't know if the actor overestimated her or underestimated her. He misunderstood her free and easy. After all, a woman is emotional. In my opinion, asking an ex-girlfriend to attend her wedding is a not wise decision in itself. What I want to say is that I can safely understand the later series of psychological activities and behaviors of the heroine. Many "defenders" will criticize the heroine, believing that she is selfish and shameful, trying to be a third party to destroy the feelings of others. It is estimated that those who say this are either emotionally simple or have experienced certain things and hate the first Three of these roles.
But what is different about this film is that the heroine is not so much trying to act as a third party, as she wants to do more than breaking through her own shackles. Because she is always used to hiding her feelings deeply, she also lacks the happiness that many other women can have. For her, the sudden wedding of her ex-boyfriend is undoubtedly a wake-up call in her heart, forcing her to start looking at her heart again-she has love, she has the same passion and rich love as many other women, she Missing love again and again is because she never really released herself. As the saying goes, if you don't erupt in silence, you perish in silence. Obviously, the heroine has erupted. A person who has always closed her heart suddenly awakens for a while. It is conceivable that this eruption will be vigorous.
One of the scenes in the movie that touched me the most is the hero and heroine on the cruise ship. The hero said that this is our last time alone. He revealed his heart to her, saying that he remembered that he would push her away every time he hugged her in public. He knew she didn’t like this, and he also hugged his fiancée, so she would obediently let him hold him and hold him as long as he wanted. how long. She said, I have changed. He said that if his fiancée said love to her, she must say it in time, otherwise she would miss it. At this time, the cruise ship drove under a bridge, the light dimmed, and the heroine looked at the hero’s face. She had something to say, and those three words seemed to come out of her mouth. She had this Opportunity, you can show your heart to him. The cruise ship quickly passed the bridge, and the heroine looked up, again with a bright light. In that short moment, if I missed it, I just missed it. She still didn't say those three words in time. Then there was a close-up of her face. From her face, she could see the loss and helplessness that she couldn't hide. Only she herself understood what that moment meant. Seeing this, I couldn't help crying.
Such a romantic environment and atmosphere is a good opportunity to confess. If she did that at the time, maybe the result will be a turnaround, but there is no assumption, this is reality. Missing this opportunity, she can only use other stupid methods to recover him. Although it is a stupid way, if she persists to the end, she can still succeed. But she still missed it, and she was constrained by her conscience. Finally, she finally confessed to him. A few hours before his upcoming wedding, he turned around and was busy chasing his fiancée. He chased her, she chased him, and no one was chasing her behind him. Obviously , The result is clear at a glance. But in fact, the actor will eventually choose his fiancée anyway, because obviously he knows who is really suitable for him. Undoubtedly, the heroine’s charming appearance, clever mind, and very attractive personality will indeed attract many men. Maybe they will choose to fall in love with her, but when it comes to marriage, men are more willing to choose fiancee. Women, they make men feel more secure, and in short, they are more suitable to be wives.
In my opinion, the ending of the movie is satisfactory. Although the heroine did not win the war, she did not lose, because she finally broke free from the shackles and realized her heart. She has been able to let go. The key to letting go is that she at least expressed her true feelings. She has fought for it, loved it and was stupid. Even if she did not win him, she at least avoided a huge regret. She tells the person she loves that I love you, then kisses him, then leaves, and gives blessings. In fact, this is what she needs to do. This is her, she is a smart woman, falling into the blind love circle will only make her a pitiful "germ", and after experiencing this storm, she will become more complete and get rid of this In the strange circle, she can be a queen-like chic again, even better than before. Remove the protective color of the camouflage, make the heart truly strong, smile with tears and bless the loved ones, the woman at this moment is blooming with profound beauty that makes people all touched.
In addition, by the way, the original soundtrack of the movie is really great, and every song is in line with the movie. My favorite is one of the episodes "I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself". Although this song is arranged for the fiancée in the movie, I think this song is actually more from the lyrics. It's like a portrayal of the heroine's mood, which is very touching.
What's more interesting is that this song was originally the work of British soul jazz singer Dusty Springfield. In the movie, the fiancée actually used her version when singing in the bar, but the original soundtrack included another one that was more lyrical. The version performed by Nicky Holland should be sung specifically for this movie. This song was later re-interpreted by the garage rock band The White Stripes in a completely different cover version, which was included in the 2003 album "Elephant", and this version is now mostly circulated on the Internet. But I have to say that no matter which version is great, classic songs can have such magic.
Nicky Holland — I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself
I just don't know what to do with myself
Don't know just what to do with myself
I'm so used to doing everything with you
Planning everything for two
And now that we're through
I just don't know what to do with my time
I'm so lonesome for you it's a crime
Going to a movie only makes me sad
Parties make me feel as bad
When I'm not with you
I just don'
It needs the sun and rain
I need your sweet love to ease
all the pain
I just don't know what to do with myself [x2]
Baby if your new love ever turns you down
Come on back I will be around
Just waiting for you
I don't know what else to do
Like a summer rose
It needs the sun and rain
I need your sweet love to ease
all the pain
I don't know just what to do with myself [x2]
Baby if your new love ever turns Down you
Come by Will BE ON the Back the I around
the Just Waiting for you
the I'm Still Crazy for you SO
No No No No
the I do not know the What the else to do [x3]
the I'm Still Crazy for you SO
No No No No
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